jessicasilver Posted July 22, 2009 Share Posted July 22, 2009 im going on holiday very soon in less then a week infact and my boyfriend is being extra nice to me!!! when he went on holiday he was being really mean and he hardly texted me or called me! but now its my turn to go his being so nice, he brought me a teddy and a rose today and he said 'dont go on holiday stay here with me'' why is he being nice?? he made me promise him that i would text him everyday when im on holiday even though he didnt (for almost a week of no contact)! also he confessed that he exchanged numbers with two girls (but does not consider it as cheating)!!! why is he being so nice ?? also, does he deserve a text from me everyday when im on holiday when he didnt make the effort to text me when he was away??? Link to post Share on other sites
Thaddeus Posted July 22, 2009 Share Posted July 22, 2009 He's probably being nice because, well, he's a nice fellow. So he didn't text you everyday. So what? It was less than a week. That's nothing. How could he have been mean to you if he wasn't in touch? Exchanging numbers, by the way, is not cheating. Now, if he (or she) takes it to another level, that's something else, but at this point I don't get the sense that he (or they) have done anything wrong. If you want to text him while you're away, don't refrain from doing it because you think he doesn't deserve it. Do what you want because you want to do it. If you feel like texting him, then by all means go ahead. If not, then don't. Anything else is just unnecessary drama-making. And who needs that? Enjoy your holiday! Go have fun! Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted July 24, 2009 Share Posted July 24, 2009 You two really need to sort out your relationship. Immaturity, maybe not understanding trust and faith in a relationship, the dymanic, allowing eachother to enjoy other things without having to include the other person..Just seems you both have an odd way of treating eachother. It is drama, thanks Thad for putting it like that. Healthy relationships shouldn't have so much drama, pain and wonder going on. Link to post Share on other sites
shunter Posted July 29, 2009 Share Posted July 29, 2009 You two really need to sort out your relationship. Immaturity. i changed your words and put a period after the immaturity. perfectly well said Link to post Share on other sites
BadKittyNo Posted July 30, 2009 Share Posted July 30, 2009 " also, does he deserve a text from me everyday when im on holiday when he didnt make the effort to text me when he was away??? " How about not even using the word "deserve" at all and instead texting him because you miss him and want to say hi. Or because you see or do something that you think he'd enjoy hearing about. And maybe because you just want to show him how important he is to you? It looks like you are trying to see the relationship in terms of keeping score. And it just doesn't work that way. Maybe he realized that you were upset about him not keeping in touch while he was away and is being sweet to you to try and make up for it? That would be my guess at least. Enjoy the new attention for what it is, don't ruin it by trying to over-analyze it. Link to post Share on other sites
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