cutiebutt Posted July 23, 2009 Share Posted July 23, 2009 Hey all *sigh* i finally found a site where others go through the same thing i do... My situation... met HIM in a chatroom...i am in germany, he is in NY. Omg, i've never thought of gettin into something like that but it just happened..He is an amazing man and even the whole situation sucks, we both love each other.. I am talkin to him since almost one year..we had a break of a couple weeks in winter.. but we got back together cuz we realized we both can't be without each other.. End of june i flew over to see him... 4000mls.. omg i was excited..we spent an AMAZING week together...and now... everything is worse.. I miss him so damn much.. it hurts so bad.. Even I see him everyday on cam, hear his voice, get his txts... it's still not the same..we were together there, we felt each other, we just became ONE. But I guess most of you will know what I'm talkin about...right? We will meet again..next year..february..omg such a long time, but at least something to hold on.. to live for.. 6 months and a couple days.. I wish all of you that you are able to handle it and that everything will have a good end. Link to post Share on other sites
Lyssa Posted July 23, 2009 Share Posted July 23, 2009 Hi Cutiebutt and welcome to LS! It's not easy being miles away from your partner. I know how you feel, Cutie and a lot on this board are in the same place as you are in. Spend as much time as you both can online, on the phone and on cam. Time flies by quickly now, by the time you realise it - your BF is already knocking on your door. Keep posting! Link to post Share on other sites
Island Girl Posted July 23, 2009 Share Posted July 23, 2009 Welcome to Loveshack cutiebutt. Yes we do know what you are talking about and how you are feeling but that doesn't make it easier does it? It sucks. Not having your SO to see as often as you like for as long as you like is terrible. BUT you can make the most of it. Communicate how you feel when you feel it with him and encourage him to do the same. Make the extra effort to do something nice for each other -- like mailing surprises, etc. And find things you like to do that you can do together. Some here play online games with each other or watch movies together. I think those are great ideas - my man doesn't have access and couldn't work a computer if he did but it has really helped those here who do! Make a ticker for your countdown to your next visit. That time will shrink down to nothing. And as Lyssa said it is great you have a time for the visit so you can look forward to it. Stay strong - post here if you need to rant, are having difficulties, etc. Most of the time you can find someone going through whatever situation is happening. {{{hugs}}} And BTW don't bold your entire post. Use bolding for emphasis - otherwise it makes it difficult to read. Nuff said and, again, welcome to our little community. Link to post Share on other sites
Author cutiebutt Posted July 23, 2009 Author Share Posted July 23, 2009 aw ty so much.. yea it's hard but we have a lot of memories we've made in that week and of course online and I know we're gonna make it. 194 days... could be worse, that's what i keep tellin myself... could be 195 lol...no seriously, we met for the first time almost one year after starting talkin .. so that was way more than 194 days:D and we still made it... I love being able to see him almost every day and to hear him and ty for all those advices... We are listening to the same radio station, when ever we can and that's such a great thing.. knowing we both just listen to right the same song.. Oh well... Ty for the warm welcome!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Island Girl Posted July 23, 2009 Share Posted July 23, 2009 We've gone 1095 days between visits - and we've held on. Still going strong - in fact stronger than we ever were before. Where there is a will there is a way. Always. Cheers! Link to post Share on other sites
Lyssa Posted July 23, 2009 Share Posted July 23, 2009 We are listening to the same radio station, when ever we can and that's such a great thing.. knowing we both just listen to right the same song.. Oh same here! My fiance will post an online radio link (his fav radio station) whenever we are online together so that we both can listen to it . He was just here (in my country) for a few months and just went back to his country on Tues. So I will be doing a countdown too! You'll pull through, Cutie! Link to post Share on other sites
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