nosense Posted July 23, 2009 Share Posted July 23, 2009 Ok so me and this girl have been in love for 10 months, i lost my virginity to her, and we always had plans for the future together... heres what happened, during the summer we've both went to distant places, i went to romainia and she went to washington state, she arrived back home about 10 days b4 i did. during this time however we kept in touch by email and she kept telling me she misses me and loves me and has dates planned etc. however all off a sudden i ask her to come to romainia with me and ill extended my trip and she snapped at me, i get mad and snap at her, i also say srry later, she sends me an email back saying she needs space and to stop talking to her friends, i come back home only to find that she breaks up with me because "there was no reason left to stay and now she is finally independent of me" ( it came outta no where ) i noticed this happen almost as soon as she got back to chicago. i have strong feelings for this girl and i want her back but i think she might be ether a selfish BLANK or confused, i tried saying sorry and apologizing profusly but she was resistant so i decided to say screw it and lets move on, i've remained NC since, i want her back but how can i be sure she's thinking about me, etc or also wants the same, what are the chances of it happening, btw i forgot to mention were pretty young (no puppy love things plz) i figure if shes young shes more likely to come back then if she were older Link to post Share on other sites
lupa Posted July 23, 2009 Share Posted July 23, 2009 Hey brother, it sounds like she found someone else who caught her eye. I know it is hard (I am having the same thing in a divorce) but that's what it sounds like to me. Good luck, kick her ass to the curb. Link to post Share on other sites
Author nosense Posted July 23, 2009 Author Share Posted July 23, 2009 i dont think she's found another guy, ive talked to some of her friends and they just say shes happy to be independent, but no confirmed other guy Link to post Share on other sites
NopeNah Posted July 24, 2009 Share Posted July 24, 2009 Talking to her friends and asking about her is not NC! Link to post Share on other sites
Author nosense Posted July 24, 2009 Author Share Posted July 24, 2009 ok well that was a couple days ago, now it's definatly NC.... jees. point is, do high school girls come back? even if they did the dumping? Link to post Share on other sites
boogieboy Posted July 24, 2009 Share Posted July 24, 2009 High school girls change boyfriends like they change underwear. Same for high school boys. And her friends will lie for her. So she did have her eye on someone else. Let her go. Shes not thinking about you. If she is, she will call. Link to post Share on other sites
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