denlw_9669 Posted November 9, 2003 Share Posted November 9, 2003 Hello, maybe somone can help me, ive been with my girl for 2 yrs now its been wonderful and great. But a yr ago i lost my job, economy was bad no job to find. I slipped into a deep depression, i was sad, grouchy, no fun to be with, she suported me thru it all, never left my side, but i still never saw her love all i saw was gloom and now finally im back to work im in school and everything is going good but she said it was too much, she says she cares for me, but does not love me anymore, it hurts so bad, she is the one that comes only once in a persons life, ive talked, cryed, wrote her poems and told her im sorry and that its all my fault, she cryed, huged me, kissed me, and still treats me so nice, but she said she has a very small amount of love deep down left, but that she does care, she said i can take my time to move, but i dont want too, i want her, im realy all better now, only now im so sad, she realy realy loved me once,. What can i do?.....how do i change her back to loving me....i know she can again,,,,but i dont know how to do it....please some one help me, she is my life,love,friend,there has to be some way to turn this around.....even if i went thru it again i know now that i would stay happy and make her happy....but i need that last chance....if only one more chance i know i could make it all the way it was........................please any advice at all would be so helpful.......please help me. Link to post Share on other sites
Vivid_29 Posted November 9, 2003 Share Posted November 9, 2003 Such a sad story but you are not gonna change her mind. If she wants to come back, she will, but you can't make her. If you really, truely love her, you'll let her go and leave her alone. Be good to yourself, stay busy, hang with friends, talk to family, cry and let it all out. It hurts, but you need suck it up and drive on. Time will heal you... Link to post Share on other sites
IOnceWasHis Posted November 16, 2003 Share Posted November 16, 2003 I know this is hard, but as my ex (whom I'm trying to get back with) says, "What will be, will be." If she isn't it for you, God has someone better, even though that's hard to imagine right now. If you've told her how you feel, that's all you can do. If you two still talk regularly, be completely honest with her, but tell her that you want to start over (if you'd be willing to do that), and see where it goes. You sound like a great guy with a great heart, and if she isn't the one, someone wonderful will snag you on down the road. God bless and keep you! L Link to post Share on other sites
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