rab Posted November 9, 2003 Share Posted November 9, 2003 . Hello All. I have been living with my girlfriend for 3 1/2 years and we seperated 2 months ago. Actually we seperated 5 months ago when we were living toghther but stayed till the end of our lease. We remain good friends and are on speaking terms. Here is the problem - I want her back. She is not too keen on the idea - she indicated that we will be fine for the first few months and then we ill be back to the arguments(not major - but many minor ones). I call but she is yet to call me - when I do call her we do speak and have good conversation. I look after the cats when she is away and even pick her up from teh airport. I should have tried harder to fix things when we were living toghther but as many men do- we are stubborn. Her parents were disappointed that we seperated as I had spoken to them about us getting married. She says she still love me but she would like to try living alone - as she has never done that. What do I do - do I persue her - leave her be and find someone else. I can not think of anyone else I would rather be with - she is really a loving and good person Any advice? Link to post Share on other sites
Arabess Posted November 11, 2003 Share Posted November 11, 2003 Maybe you should consider giving her some space and freedom until she TOO comes to the conclusion she would rather be with you than anyone else. Send flowers, date, make her smile, be there when she gets a flight tire....and be the best friend she could have WITHOUT being smothering. Just because she wants to be on her own awhile...doesn't mean she's done with you. She just may want to experience another part of life....a little independence. Link to post Share on other sites
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