elitedanielmx Posted November 10, 2003 Share Posted November 10, 2003 Well. Hi Everyone. I have a problem. At my work theres this one girl that Ive had a crush on for about a year now, I havent dated anyone hoping that one day she will be mine. We havent dated but we both like each other or so I think. She in in a relationship with the mechanic at the same employer, and there always fighting, Ive already had to step in a couple times to stop him from hitting her. Now he thinks she cheating on him with me. Im a good guy and would never to that to a guy regardless if hes an a**hole or not. But she keeps telling me that they break up like every other week and usually get back together within a few days, and she always promises that she will go on a date with me, she knows I love her and I know she has feelings for me, Im always very sweet to her, and always side with her. Im always there for her if she needs a hug or a shoulder to cry on, Im like a big brother to her. She always calls me when theyve had a fight and comes over to my house to talk to me. We havent done anything serious, shes kissed me once but it wasnt a french kiss, just a "youll be ok sweetie" to her and she kissed me real quick and said why are you so good to me, and i always say cause "you deserve better" and that I just "want you to be happy". But she still wont leave him. I know we will work out if she just gave me a chance. What do I do, I think Im falling in love with her? Link to post Share on other sites
moimeme Posted November 10, 2003 Share Posted November 10, 2003 Some people seem to thrive on the sort of conflict-ridden relationship you describe. This girl could be one of those people. You are doing pretty much all you can do; you're there for her when she needs you. Someday, she might decide to trade in drama for a calmer, more relaxed relationship (assuming this is what she'd have with you!) but you're just going to have to bide your time - or decide she might not be such a great deal and look for someone else. Link to post Share on other sites
yes Posted November 10, 2003 Share Posted November 10, 2003 she's clearly attracted to the drama. so i say add some drama to yourself - stop being so perfectly nice and good to her - pick a small fight once; or go on a date with someone else. then she may finally drop him and be with you. otherwise, you're just a friend, a should to cry on. others may kick me for this advice, but this is my 2c. -yes Link to post Share on other sites
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