lilly83 Posted July 28, 2009 Share Posted July 28, 2009 My boyfriend ended things with me the other day. He said that he does not feel that a relationship is right for him at the moment and he is struggling to feel the bond at times. I just feel so hurt, scared and alone. I Suffer with depression. I have now got a new job and had him and thought things were looking up for me. I feel that everyone who is close to me leaves me and does not care. Im so alone and have been through so much heartache. He has had depression him self and went through a tough break up with the ex of 5 years. She moved him away from his friends and then 7 months later cheated on him and is know with the guy that she cheated on him with. This come as a total shock to me as I thought he was happy and we were doing well. He had talked about us in the furture several times and his mum and friends who live over 100 miles away said they have seen some positive changes in him since he was with me. The ex has been trying to talk to him online and she has to go to his later this week to collect the rest of her furniture. Do you think her contacting him has made him realise he is not as ready to move on as he thought? He txt me the other night saying we can be friends and perhaps see if it can be more in the future but can not make any promises. So we are now friends. I said im here for him and if he wants to get out or do something he should let me know as that is what friends are for. He txt me asking if we can do something on Saturday? Is this a good sign? I noticed he has been on to the site which we met on recently but he does not have any many friends in this area. 2 people at work and thats it so guess he could be looking to make more friends? Do you think because of what she done he feels insecure and can not trust people and wants to slow things right down? Do you think we have another chance? Im just hurting so much, can not deal with anymore heartbreak and want him so much. Please help. Thank you. Link to post Share on other sites
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