I am pathetic

[MistyK]

And for the record, Sid, there were at least 3 other BS's on that thread you mention, none of whom took exception with me except you. You took what I said and twisted it - I didn't mean what you were implying and you got really nasty with me. If I had truly been out of line, i trust that some of the more tactful BS's there would have called me out for it.

 

see thread: When the only choice is half-happy

[jj33]

Misty you are missing the point. This poster came here for advice. Not content to heal from their own affairs, some people feel the need to play the victim card on behalf of BSs everywhere even when its not their marriage, and the BS isnt even posting even to the point of calling you out for something you didnt write on a different thread (every post offends them because it reminds them that their spouse cheated on them and the wound bleeds)

 

This is their way of healing themselves (at your expense today...)

 

Catch up girl!

[MistyK]

Am I always in fighting mode, oh no. Look at other posts I make to both WS and BS I generally try to give support, opinion and advice all in a constructive manor. But a thread like this where BS's (and supports) feel they have the right to do as they please and try to justify it, oh that puts me in a fighting mode.

 

Tell me all the ways a WS could chose other than cheating?? Oh what talking? Been there done that did no good, same from my AP. Oh divorce? Yes willingly through away my comfortable life that I have built, yeah whatever. What else suggestions do you have???

 

Are all BS's the same to me, humm that is a good question. Short answer no but that no has to be earned. There are a few BS's I respect that I have had it out with there the best example being Owl. But in general BS's like WS's follow a standard script so I in general respond to them the same.

 

Pkn,

Phoenix Rising is probably the most reasonable supportive BS there ever was, based on what I've seen at least. Cut her some slack maybe?

Some of the others, well that's a different story - it's a shame that there are so many here that are just out to hurt people with their righteous tirade.

[Reggie]

Messed up in who's opinion??? Why cheat because it was an easy escape, but you would not understand and you chose not to bother learning. So why discuss this with you, it is a waste of time.

 

Without honor what is this the 15th century? What want to have a sword duel to see who is the real man?

 

If you drop your wallet would I keep it, nope.

 

When I was single I used to make a habit of stealing away woman from guys like you, because it is easy. Because in general your lazy and unresponsive to their needs. They become vulnerable and just being nice takes them away from folks like you. Then they became my girlfriend and no one could steal them away from me, because I meet their needs. Seems you could learn from someone like me, but then again your too good for that arn't you, even though I can keep a woman happy and at home.

 

Pk, no one keeps another person happy. That is the individual's responsibility.

And, if you could steal a woman away from someone, that is a woman not worth being in a relationship with.

I cannot comment on the relative ease with which you could steal a woman from me, as I do not know what attributes you possess that might make you attractive to them.

Based on your writing, and your purported philosophy of life, I am dubious that any woman I valued would be interested in you.

If your wife is happy being with you, that is fine. I imagine she enjoys being picked up from Kindergarten.

[fooled once]

*sigh*

 

Can we all stop beating the dead horse of all this crap?

 

*sigh*

 

Enough already...

[Tony]

I tend to agree with the above post. A great many of the last 100 posts have been off topic. I think we pretty well handled this topic...at least early on. I don't have time to sit here and delete all the off topic threads. Many thanks for your participation.