Hkizzle Posted July 31, 2009 Share Posted July 31, 2009 I just watched the movie "The Hangover" which is basically about 4 guys that go on a stag night and all the things that could have gone wrong did go wrong. Just curious, and this is directed to the ladies more. What do you think happens on stag nights, do you think guys just go out and get drunk, go to a strip club or even pay for sex. What would you say if your future husband was to go on a stag night? Just ignore it and even if something happens just don't want to hear about it and let him have his last night of single manhood? Curious on your thoughts. Link to post Share on other sites
AlektraClementine Posted July 31, 2009 Share Posted July 31, 2009 Well I'm engaged and we've discussed the potential bachelor/bachelorette parties. First, I know what happens at the worst of bachelor parties. Bad stuff. But just recently, I attended a bachelorette party and I'll bet some of you men would be surprised at the inappropriate things I saw. Things I would NEVER participate in. I was the only girl on the sidelines watching this stuff go down. And I was the only unmarried woman there. The things these wives were doing would surely have angered their husbands. I came back and reported every bit of it to my fiance. We will have our own bachelor/bachelorette parties but we've agreed on some ground rules. No strippers, or strip clubs. I will have my best friend plan mine. She's a good girl and my fiance can trust her to not plan anything he wouldn't approve of. Personally, I'd like to get my girls together and go rent some muscle cars at a track. He said he'd like to go to a football game. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Hkizzle Posted July 31, 2009 Author Share Posted July 31, 2009 lol, since no one knows who you or your friends are. Mind letting us know what type of stuff went down? Link to post Share on other sites
in_absentia Posted July 31, 2009 Share Posted July 31, 2009 I assume it's a night of heavy drinking, clubbing, potential practical jokes and strippers/strip clubs. I would be okay with my bf going to a strip club and getting wasted on a stag night, but I would feel uncomfortable with him getting a private dance himself. That film was fantastic, I laughed all the way through Link to post Share on other sites
New Again Posted July 31, 2009 Share Posted July 31, 2009 I just watched the movie "The Hangover" which is basically about 4 guys that go on a stag night and all the things that could have gone wrong did go wrong. Just curious, and this is directed to the ladies more. What do you think happens on stag nights, do you think guys just go out and get drunk, go to a strip club or even pay for sex. What would you say if your future husband was to go on a stag night? Just ignore it and even if something happens just don't want to hear about it and let him have his last night of single manhood? Curious on your thoughts. Depends on the guys involved, but in general I KNOW drinking, and assume strip club attendance. If my fiance went on a stag night, we would have to discuss things I would absolutely not be OK with. However, it's becoming more and more common for couples to do their bachelor/ette parties together. A lot of my friends are getting married the last couple years and this year, and the only one who didn't do a combo party did a night of drinking and golf. No strippers. If anything that crossed my line occurred on such a night, I would definitely want to know. It's not his last night of singledom; he's already supposed to be committed to me. On top of that, he would have already had a significant number of years of being single and crazy under his belt, so f*ck that sh*t! Link to post Share on other sites
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