pelleblue Posted August 1, 2009 Share Posted August 1, 2009 Start out by saying I'm not going with the pic to gauge my attractiveness. I've been told I'm in the 75 percentile of phyiscal attraction (height/weight proportional, athletic, dk blond hair/blue eyes, nice hair/teeth and charming smile...) and since most women find attractiveness more in personality, I'm focusing on that right now. It's hard to list attributes without sounding smug, and I know "statistical math" isn't what makes guys attractive, so let me start out with some humble things people have said about my personality: confident, talented, sincere, funny, charming, releaxed, likable, and trusting are words most often used to describe me. On to the academic list: I'm a self-employed award winning architect, I speak Norwegian fluently, sometimes dirty (hehe, jeg elsker å knule jenter!), I haven't been sick in over 20 years and know how to heal myself (serously!), and am overwhelingly positive about life and people. So what do you think of my chances? Link to post Share on other sites
Enema Posted August 2, 2009 Share Posted August 2, 2009 Slim to none. Link to post Share on other sites
westernxer Posted August 2, 2009 Share Posted August 2, 2009 Start out by saying I'm not going with the pic to gauge my attractiveness. I've been told I'm in the 75 percentile of phyiscal attraction (height/weight proportional, athletic, dk blond hair/blue eyes, nice hair/teeth and charming smile...) and since most women find attractiveness more in personality, I'm focusing on that right now. It's hard to list attributes without sounding smug, and I know "statistical math" isn't what makes guys attractive, so let me start out with some humble things people have said about my personality: confident, talented, sincere, funny, charming, releaxed, likable, and trusting are words most often used to describe me. On to the academic list: I'm a self-employed award winning architect, I speak Norwegian fluently, sometimes dirty (hehe, jeg elsker å knule jenter!), I haven't been sick in over 20 years and know how to heal myself (serously!), and am overwhelingly positive about life and people. So what do you think of my chances? You want a medal? LOL Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted August 2, 2009 Share Posted August 2, 2009 You know how to heal yourself? *sees a long line of fleeing females weirded out by such a comment* Link to post Share on other sites
xpaperxcutx Posted August 3, 2009 Share Posted August 3, 2009 Overconfidence can equate to cockiness. That said, why do you think you're not attractive if you've already been reminded you're in the top 75% percentile? Link to post Share on other sites
boogieboy Posted August 3, 2009 Share Posted August 3, 2009 Go out and talk to women in the lounges, show them your intelligence, show them youre interesting, and they will let you know whether or not you are attractive. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted August 3, 2009 Share Posted August 3, 2009 I considered going into Architecture. It's a tough grind, which requires loads of talent and drive, to make it. Would you mind posting a pic of one of your award winning designs so I can gauge your attractiveness level from it? Thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
Athena Posted August 3, 2009 Share Posted August 3, 2009 Start out by saying I'm not going with the pic to gauge my attractiveness. I've been told I'm in the 75 percentile of phyiscal attraction (height/weight proportional, athletic, dk blond hair/blue eyes, nice hair/teeth and charming smile...) and since most women find attractiveness more in personality, I'm focusing on that right now. It's hard to list attributes without sounding smug, and I know "statistical math" isn't what makes guys attractive, so let me start out with some humble things people have said about my personality: confident, talented, sincere, funny, charming, releaxed, likable, and trusting are words most often used to describe me. On to the academic list: I'm a self-employed award winning architect, I speak Norwegian fluently, sometimes dirty (hehe, jeg elsker å knule jenter!), I haven't been sick in over 20 years and know how to heal myself (serously!), and am overwhelingly positive about life and people. So what do you think of my chances? Not the best sales pitch. Post a picture. Okay, now what does your family say about your Negative Traits? And what have past g/f's complained about? -- that's what I want to know... heh heh Link to post Share on other sites
MSUE Posted August 3, 2009 Share Posted August 3, 2009 attractive is a physical ordeal...so no i don't find you attractive cause i see no pix Link to post Share on other sites
Author pelleblue Posted August 5, 2009 Author Share Posted August 5, 2009 Loveshack -- Thanks for the love! Woo hoo! Link to post Share on other sites
Author pelleblue Posted August 5, 2009 Author Share Posted August 5, 2009 You know how to heal yourself? *sees a long line of fleeing females weirded out by such a comment* The best physician is optimism... Seriously I had perfect attendance from 1st grade through 7 years of college...Friends call me Mr. Amazing. I don't take aspiri or any drugs whatsoever and I don't even so much as get headaches.... Ahh, hell. You guys will just think I'm full of s** and a big fat joke. The fact is I've met several people like me. Several clients. Best friends. What is normal anyway? I think normal is healthy, happy, horny, and Interested. If there's anything I think kills people the most is losing interest in things. I have insatiable Curiosity, Passion, and Zeal. The purpose in life is to plan for the future. Cheers, y'all Signed, Slim to none. Link to post Share on other sites
Lyssa Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 So... no pic? Link to post Share on other sites
Author pelleblue Posted August 5, 2009 Author Share Posted August 5, 2009 Not the best sales pitch. Post a picture. Okay, now what does your family say about your Negative Traits? And what have past g/f's complained about? -- that's what I want to know... heh heh Three of my girlfriends have asked me to marry them. I wasn't ready. I don't like to break hearts. It hurts me just as much. Still does.My family: Weel my brother's a doctor, two other brothers are self-employed, and my suster works for a hospital in Scotland. Last I asked, my family thiks my bigest negative trait is not keeping up with them :-D Gee, with the thrashing I'm getting on this thread so far, I think posting my picture is akin to asking for feathers on the tar. I'll save you the fun and keep the small level of dignity I have on my face in private. Being blunt (even in confidence) is really not recommended. Why did I come to this website? Link to post Share on other sites
Lyssa Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 Why did I come to this website? Validations? Link to post Share on other sites
Author pelleblue Posted August 5, 2009 Author Share Posted August 5, 2009 Validations? Yeah, forgot that one, too. Thanks for reminding me! Link to post Share on other sites
Author pelleblue Posted August 5, 2009 Author Share Posted August 5, 2009 I get it. It's the whole "Award Wwinning" thing isn't it. Thats' why I don't like to tell girls what I do because then they act different around me. I've learned to say I'm a starving artist looking for a muse instead. There you go. Amuse me with some more insightful comments, please. I look forward to it! PS. Just for full dosclosure, I have an office in a major metropolitain city, and thanks to my full time office staff I've ran my business from my laptop from places all over the world. My life really is one long vacation. Believe it as a joke or not, there really are people out there like me. Link to post Share on other sites
Lyssa Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 I get it. It's the whole "Award Wwinning" thing isn't it. Thats' why I don't like to tell girls what I do because then they act different around me. One of the posters here (that I know of), won an award recently. She's still pretty cool as always. Nothing has changed about her and none of us act differently around her. I've learned to say I'm a starving artist looking for a muse instead. There you go. Amuse me with some more insightful comments, please. I look forward to it! A muse.. amuse me... that really cracked me up! PS. Just for full dosclosure, I have an office in a major metropolitain city, and thanks to my full time office staff I've ran my business from my laptop from places all over the world. My life really is one long vacation. Believe it as a joke or not, there really are people out there like me. Did you mean - disclosure? Sorry.. sorry, I couldn't help it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author pelleblue Posted August 5, 2009 Author Share Posted August 5, 2009 wot cam I saey im typin wif m toes... Link to post Share on other sites
Green Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 Start out by saying I'm not going with the pic to gauge my attractiveness. I've been told I'm in the 75 percentile of phyiscal attraction (height/weight proportional, athletic, dk blond hair/blue eyes, nice hair/teeth and charming smile...) and since most women find attractiveness more in personality, I'm focusing on that right now. It's hard to list attributes without sounding smug, and I know "statistical math" isn't what makes guys attractive, so let me start out with some humble things people have said about my personality: confident, talented, sincere, funny, charming, releaxed, likable, and trusting are words most often used to describe me. On to the academic list: I'm a self-employed award winning architect, I speak Norwegian fluently, sometimes dirty (hehe, jeg elsker å knule jenter!), I haven't been sick in over 20 years and know how to heal myself (serously!), and am overwhelingly positive about life and people. So what do you think of my chances? Well I don't know how your physical attraction was measured into the 75% but depending on your age which I'm guessing is over 22 that wouldn't even put you in the attractive category... It is hard to list attributes with out sounding smug and you have failed in my eyes as you sound quite smug Link to post Share on other sites
Author pelleblue Posted August 5, 2009 Author Share Posted August 5, 2009 Well I don't know how your physical attraction was measured into the 75% but depending on your age which I'm guessing is over 22 that wouldn't even put you in the attractive category... It is hard to list attributes with out sounding smug and you have failed in my eyes as you sound quite smug Thanks for sharing :-) Link to post Share on other sites
2sure Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 You can heal yourself and speak dirty Norwegian... Might want to leave those out for a bit. Meanwhile to the question: "Do you think I'm attractive?" Doesnt matter. Confidence is whats attractive. So what matters is do YOU think you're attractive? Since you are posing the question: The answer is : Not so much. Arrogance, real or perceived is even more of a turn off when not accompanied by sincere Confidence. Its no crime, just something to work on, questions to ask yourself Link to post Share on other sites
Author pelleblue Posted August 5, 2009 Author Share Posted August 5, 2009 You can heal yourself and speak dirty Norwegian... Might want to leave those out for a bit. Meanwhile to the question: "Do you think I'm attractive?" Doesnt matter. Confidence is whats attractive. So what matters is do YOU think you're attractive? Since you are posing the question: The answer is : Not so much. Arrogance, real or perceived is even more of a turn off when not accompanied by sincere Confidence. Its no crime, just something to work on, questions to ask yourself Thanks for sharing! :-) I'm very good at humility IRL, and most sincere in confidence IRL. I didn't get successful by throwing my ego around. Actually being empathethic, a good listener, and having an intuitive ability to interpret what people say and think are the keys to my success. I think each of these things are opposite of "arrogance" and "confidence". When I go out though I'm comfortable, casual, and fun. Just thought I'd put all the data out there and see how girls react. I guess that's why some guys lie, cheat, maipulate, and play games because it seems that would be the result if I took everyone's advice. I know a lot of guys like that. That's not me. I've learned that honesty online in brevity is not something to ask advice about. The poor girl who asked if she was attractive got thousands of views and countless repsonses. Poor thing. Many people thrashed her, too. I'm sure she's really nice. But I can relate because a lot of people who engage on this site --though I'm sure mean well-- are just really mean. Well. Funny I was thinking girls would find my attributes academdically appealing. At least that's what my friends tell me! In any event I know my dog and my mom love me! Peace and Love, People !-) Link to post Share on other sites
2sure Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 In any event I know my dog and my mom love me! And really, isnt that all that matters?? Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Drawn Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 What is this? You say you're confident, but you would have to be pretty insecure to ask how attractive you are on an internet forum? Do you not meet women or something? Link to post Share on other sites
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