kelkel Posted August 2, 2009 Share Posted August 2, 2009 Up until 4 months ago I lived with my best freind since college, Ive now moved out 4hrs away with my fiance into his parents house so we could save money and i could go to school. I love his parents they are great and i have no major issues living there except our not having alot of space which we knew from the get go! However since I have moved in I have felt very alone and almost like I have no one to really turn too. I mean I know he would do whatever for me and even his parents would help in anyway they could but I feel like he doesn't want me to have any other outlets or friends but him and it is smothering. I made plans to go to dinner with a girl who was a sister to a good friend from college that lived near me and he couldn't understand why i would need to make friends here when i have him and his family. He says that is all I should need, because when you get married and have a family thats all you need. He can just be so negative, not just about this but many other things and I am the total opposite always trying to see the better side of things, therefore I try to keep my mind on the positives with him, but lately they are starting to dwindle and it has been getting harder and harder to be positive. He also gets very insecure when I visit my best friend because she is single and he tells me that I am easily swayed by her, and this just shows me that he has no trust in me even though I have never cheated on any of my relationships ever and he knows this as well. I have just always had friends around to talk to or hang out with and just relax, but now its just him and his family and it gets very old very quickly. I also feel like when we went out with my friends back where we used to live, he was always very aloof and not that friendly, almost uninterested and he claims my friends we all immature and there was too much drama, which just because they like to have fun and joke around he thinks they are immature. I just cant stand how he is so serious all the time and can never seem to take a joke its driving me nuts, what should I do???? Link to post Share on other sites
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