tami-chan Posted August 8, 2009 Share Posted August 8, 2009 Your "hookups" were with a married guy, a lawyer whose "legalese" turned you on:rolleyes: ahem... I don't have "hook-ups"..I had an affair with an MM(whose marriage was dead-that was why I was the one brought to social functions not her). Two men in my life only...stbxh and xOM. Ahh..yes, his "legalese"...he is afterall ahem..."very successful"..unlike some.... lol...oh yeah..just in case you haven't read it...xOM is divorced and still wants to marry me..go figure, right? I mean..sheesh...why me???? I was just the OW! What's wrong with him? Meantime, you modeled a loveless marriage for your daughter and squandered your youth,TC. It was not loveless,we love each other, we are family:love:-always. It was not passionate but it was cordial and peaceful...I am sure your kids saw how happy you and your ex-wives were in your marriages and continue to do so ! Squandered my youth? never....I raised a good kid...that was my purpose during that time. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Reggie Posted August 8, 2009 Author Share Posted August 8, 2009 Yes, I can see how being coerced into sex led to such a loving relationship. You guys communicated well. Must have been fun for your daughter to see that dynamic. Link to post Share on other sites
tami-chan Posted August 8, 2009 Share Posted August 8, 2009 Yes, I can see how being coerced into sex led to such a loving relationship. You guys communicated well. Must have been fun for your daughter to see that dynamic. I know you are trying to portray this like this was a regular occurrence--lol...even though you know it happened way far and in between ( if at all)..LOL!!!! Reggie, I have no regrets about staying in my marriage, I did what I thought was best at that time...so who cares?. I have no regrets with my "affair" with the xOM-mostly, because there really was no BW. My daughter saw parents who did not scream at each other, even now. here's a suggestion....give up golf and buy a house for your kid's sake! Stop being so selfish! Link to post Share on other sites
Gamine Posted August 8, 2009 Share Posted August 8, 2009 It's the Land of Oz, Reggie, and the Wizard has spoken.... Ahem. Link to post Share on other sites
tami-chan Posted August 8, 2009 Share Posted August 8, 2009 a Who says I was promiscuous, TC? Dating doesn't mean sleeping around. And as for my high horse... I enjoy the view from where I sit. And while I may have had a broken heart I will gladly bear the pain of it... for I have to have a heart for it to be broken. And that... my dear... is a fact of which I am very proud. Oh right, you "dated" married men and did not have sex:rolleyes::rolleyes:....LOL...I understand enduring the pain ( I was not "glad" about it though )...I did too...and much more...I endured the forced sex from my stbxh that Reggie enjoys bringing up...albeit it happened very rarely. Now as for the bitterness and delusional state? Well, I'll take that comment from whence it comes. How else can you take it in that state? You have a bone to pick with me apparently... because I am a BS who hasn't screwed around, who believes that infidelity isn't a good choice, and openly shares these beliefs Bone to pick with you and you don't with me? ha! and thus your sarcastic comments? Maybe you should examine your heart. Being honest to one's self is a good thing. No, you are a "reformed" former OW who is now the BS and now has no empathy to OWs (actually very rude to OWs who are also in pain) because the tables have turned. I find you hypocritical. .. No differently, I might add, than you do in advocating them. Or do I misunderstand you, TC? I don't advocate infidelity. But I dont care if you understood or misunderstood me. Your opinion of me does not matter. People who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones Are you looking at your reflection in the mirror? Link to post Share on other sites
Tony Posted August 8, 2009 Senior Moderators Share Posted August 8, 2009 This thread has really gotten nasty, mean, insulting and I am shocked at the stuff people are posting about other members. I thought we had a civilized group of people here who had a desire to help others. I think I'm still right but little by little I will have to weed out the ones not included in that summation. If you can't be positive and constructive in our forums, please go elsewhere. There is simply no reason to use threads to take your anger out on others or to insult, belittle or otherwise put down those who have simply come here to get or give helpful advice. Link to post Share on other sites
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