itstough Posted November 12, 2003 Share Posted November 12, 2003 I need some advice please. I met this woman at work about a year ago. I liked her and she also liked me. Well she quit and she told me she would stop by to see me. Well 1 month went by and another co-worker who is friend with the woman I like told me that the woman I like tried to call me but she lost my number, so I gave it to her. Now the woman I like called me and asked me to come over and visit her. I couldn't make it so she gave me her phone number without me asking for it and told me to give her a call sometime, which I have not done. It has now been a little over 2 months since I talked to her, and I wanted to know if it is too late or could I still call. Like is 2 months just too long and she wouldn't want me calling? She however has never called me since then either. Now I don't know if these are hints or not, but the woman I likes friend will always tell me when she comes in to our office to visit. She brings her up in alot of our convo's. Now I know this is stupid but we have these paper pumpkins all over our wall at our office and I asked her friend who's name was on this one pumpkin she told me then she started to tell me all about the woman I likes real pumpkin looks like at her house. So am I correct in assuming these are some kind of hints? if so what are they for? Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
Arabess Posted November 12, 2003 Share Posted November 12, 2003 Ahhhhh.....what's two months if the woman OBVIOUSLY wanted to get together with you????? CALL HER......!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author itstough Posted November 12, 2003 Author Share Posted November 12, 2003 Please,Please,Please Tell me the best thing to do. I don't want to make myself look like a fool. I talked to this womans friend today and said ME: I want to call her. Her: Well call her then. Me: I don't want to call her if she hates me now. Her: She does not hate you. Her: What do you want to talk to her about. Me: Just to see hows she has been. Me: Well she is not going to get mad and Yell at me for calling after all this time. Her: I don't know or she said I don't know I don't think so. I forget which she said to me. Now I don't know if these are hints or not, but the woman I likes friend will always tell me when she comes in to our office to visit. She brings her up in alot of our convo's. Now I know this is stupid but we have these paper pumpkins all over our wall at our office and I asked her friend who's name was on this one pumpkin she told me then she started to tell me all about the woman I likes real pumpkin looks like at her house. So am I correct in assuming these are some kind of hints? if so what are they for? Thanks Are these hints or not???? Link to post Share on other sites
Arabess Posted November 12, 2003 Share Posted November 12, 2003 Wouldn't you feel MORE like a fool if you DIDN'T call her and she wanted you to???? Get on the PHONE.....DIAL...... Link to post Share on other sites
Author itstough Posted November 12, 2003 Author Share Posted November 12, 2003 Originally posted by Arabess Wouldn't you feel MORE like a fool if you DIDN'T call her and she wanted you to???? Get on the PHONE.....DIAL...... LOL you go a point there. But to me what her friend said about me calling doesn't sound too good. Thats why I am here asking to see what other peoples opinions are. THANKS Link to post Share on other sites
Author itstough Posted November 15, 2003 Author Share Posted November 15, 2003 So I finally called this girl back. She was real nice to me we had what I thought was a good convo Hell she even put her daughter on to say Hi to me. Then in mid sentence she says hold on let me answer this other call. I am 10000 percent sure she did not get another call, then she tells me to call back in 15 minutes. I call back and she does not answer the phone??? Now when she answered and she realized who I was She said oh hey Itstough all high pitched and sounding like she was excited to hear from me is she just a great actress or something? I find this funny for some reason. What do you guys think?????? Link to post Share on other sites
Goatsbreath Posted November 15, 2003 Share Posted November 15, 2003 I wouldn't call her again unless she called you Link to post Share on other sites
Author itstough Posted January 1, 2004 Author Share Posted January 1, 2004 Can anybody please clue me in on why this girl even talked to me. I just can't figure out why she talked to me then decided to pretend like she had a phone call. I would think if she didn't want to talk to me she would of made an excuse up rioght off the bat to get rid of me. Also she did sound happy when she realized it was me on the phone. I guess her high pitched voice saying oh its you ITSTOUGH could of been her scared it was me??? I am so so so so so confused and troubled by this. Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
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