marlena Posted August 7, 2009 Share Posted August 7, 2009 Did I ever tell you that I find the way you think to be pretty awesome? I both love and agree with this statement and have often wondered, "Why do some couples strive for this - what is the benefit of it?" Ah, thanks!!! No benefit. They just can't think for themselves. That simple. Link to post Share on other sites
AlektraClementine Posted August 7, 2009 Share Posted August 7, 2009 Guess me and my partner are a coupla half-wits who can't think for ourselves. Not something we "strive" for. Just something that happens naturally. I always thought it was because we were so aligned in thought and had the same sense of humor. Link to post Share on other sites
tinktronik Posted August 7, 2009 Share Posted August 7, 2009 Guess me and my partner are a coupla half-wits who can't think for ourselves. Not something we "strive" for. Just something that happens naturally. I always thought it was because we were so aligned in thought and had the same sense of humor. I agree. Here at my home we are apparently just a bunch of morons. Nothing I haven't muttered under my breath before. It is something that comes naturally after spending a lot of time together. There are natural clues that one becomes familiar with to the point where over time you have an understanding of how your partner operates. I find it both irritating at times and comforting. Link to post Share on other sites
marlena Posted August 7, 2009 Share Posted August 7, 2009 I always thought it was because we were so aligned in thought and had the same sense of humor. Well, good for you then if that's what makes you happy. Personally, I wouldn't want to be aligned in thought with anybody, not to the point of finishing eachother's sentences. As for the humour part, I prefer someone whose humour is very original and an integral part of his own very unique personality. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted August 7, 2009 Author Share Posted August 7, 2009 , I would not want anyone to finish my sentence or I finish his. I find this type of parroting that I often see in couples annoying. What I have noticed is that this happens when the two are not very bright to begin with. ............... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted August 8, 2009 Author Share Posted August 8, 2009 Did I ever tell you that I find the way you think to be pretty awesome? I both love and agree with this statement and have often wondered, "Why do some couples strive for this - what is the benefit of it?" and probably those couples who finish each other's sentences.. (how cute is that)... often dresses the same way.. like twins.. they remind me of a set of salt and pepper shakers.. same colours.. same jackets. ... how tacky.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted August 8, 2009 Author Share Posted August 8, 2009 I don't understand it, either - especially here on LS- people are always trying to psychoanalyze people as opposed to just stating their opinion(s). Non-qualified individuals trying to diagnose people and/or put them in a box yet they've never even met said person! hahaha.. I call those .. the kitchen psychologists.. as I said before .. anyone can be psychologists.. LS is the cyber proof.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted August 8, 2009 Author Share Posted August 8, 2009 Exactly. There you go. I think Lizzie makes Loveshack more fun. thanks... I do my best.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted August 8, 2009 Author Share Posted August 8, 2009 Ah, thanks!!! No benefit. They just can't think for themselves. That simple. I agree with Complicated.. you ARE awesome.. one of the best... open-minded poster .. Link to post Share on other sites
tami-chan Posted August 8, 2009 Share Posted August 8, 2009 IO, so glad you are here to inject a balance of wisdom to this insanity. I feel the same way. While I am chopped liver compared to Christie Brinkley, I too was a model and at 48 am a proud peacock. But to be a proud peacock one has to groom their feathers and remain clean. I certainly don't know where a 57 year old prostitute winds up. I hope for Lizzie's sake she gets professional help with her sexual problems and finds true happiness... and returns that happiness... instead of living in the periphery of life. A PEACOCK? I thought you were a woman? Are you a transvestite? Nothing wrong with that....how interesting... Link to post Share on other sites
tami-chan Posted August 8, 2009 Share Posted August 8, 2009 I met someone who was a print model....she was the the BEFORE in a BEFORE AND AFTER AD.... Link to post Share on other sites
fooled once Posted August 8, 2009 Share Posted August 8, 2009 Everyone is entitled to their own opinions. But hasn't this thread insulted pretty much everyone at this point? Can it die please? I think OW/OM/BS etc can all learn some things from each other. Lizzie has a right to post this; just as the woman who posted the original one that caused this spin off had a right to post hers. In the first post that caused this spin off, that poster was hurting and venting. Unfortunately, this post, IMHO, was posted to inflame. And while I think parts of this entire post were funny, when posters start jumping in and making fun of how some couples live And no, my husband and I don't dress alike and hopefully, never will. Can we just stop and let this go before we forget we are all here to hopefully learn from each other, share experiences, etc? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted August 8, 2009 Author Share Posted August 8, 2009 I met someone who was a print model....she was the the BEFORE in a BEFORE AND AFTER AD.... ouch .. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted August 8, 2009 Author Share Posted August 8, 2009 Everyone is entitled to their own opinions. But hasn't this thread insulted pretty much everyone at this point? Can it die please? I think OW/OM/BS etc can all learn some things from each other. Lizzie has a right to post this; just as the woman who posted the original one that caused this spin off had a right to post hers. In the first post that caused this spin off, that poster was hurting and venting. Unfortunately, this post, IMHO, was posted to inflame. And while I think parts of this entire post were funny, when posters start jumping in and making fun of how some couples live And no, my husband and I don't dress alike and hopefully, never will. Can we just stop and let this go before we forget we are all here to hopefully learn from each other, share experiences, etc? Aaahh.. come on.. Fooled.. don't be a party pooper... We're having some fun.. Link to post Share on other sites
AlektraClementine Posted August 8, 2009 Share Posted August 8, 2009 Girls girls. If you're not an OW or an OM, you should expect to read things that'll tick you off over here in cheaterville. I'm not an OW. I do read this part of the board for my own reasons but I don't see the point in allowing my feelings to get hurt. None of it is personal. The fact is, that the letter is ridiculous. Lizzie knows this. She's probably getting a good chuckle right now knowing how many wifey panties are in wads right now. Link to post Share on other sites
foreal Posted August 8, 2009 Share Posted August 8, 2009 Hello Lizzie, I am honored my post (yes, I am The Master Bater Babe) inspired your letter. Who knew? The passion it illicits is over the top- Loves it. In any case, I have refrained from posting here until I read and read and read and read and geezus read some more... And it's all goooooooood. Link to post Share on other sites
Chubbi Posted August 8, 2009 Share Posted August 8, 2009 She's probably getting a good chuckle right now knowing how many wifey panties are in wads right now. Alektra- this post is disturbing. First, don't ever speak for Lizzie. She can do that herself and pretty well. Second, keep your "probablies" and 'maybes' to yourself. FYI, I've never seen anything less funny in my life. "Hahhahaha, look how offensive I'm being!! I'm hurting someone who's already been cut open. Look how funny it is that these people who lives have been destroyed! Ahahaha- let's all laugh at the stupid BS whose loves humiliated them. Oh, how funny their pain is!!" No, I don't think it's funny at all. It's sickening. Lizzie is a lot of things, but I don't think she's sick like that. I wonder why YOU would think that is her reaction. Btw, I'm not an OW or a BS either so don't pull that bitter bullshoot explanation on me. I hope you're never as well, and if in the future you are in either position, I hope nobody laughs at you. Am I hurting your feelings now? don't take it personal... I don't post on either forum unless there's invitation. And your post kinda made me think wtf?? Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted August 8, 2009 Share Posted August 8, 2009 First, don't ever speak for Lizzie. She can do that herself and pretty well. .. you do realize that you are speaking for Lizzie ?.. hahahaha Link to post Share on other sites
tami-chan Posted August 8, 2009 Share Posted August 8, 2009 .. you do realize that you are speaking for Lizzie ?.. hahahaha Oh dear me...LOL!!!!...the irony of it all...... Link to post Share on other sites
Chubbi Posted August 8, 2009 Share Posted August 8, 2009 And they say maturity increases with age. well, there are exceptions to every rule... two infact. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted August 8, 2009 Author Share Posted August 8, 2009 Chubbi.. some posters are 'experts' in doing that.. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted August 8, 2009 Share Posted August 8, 2009 And they say maturity increases with age. well, there are exceptions to every rule... two infact. Oh come on off your high horse.. I was pointing out the obvious that you were telling someone not to speak for Lizzie all the while that is all you were doing... It is akin to someone posting how much they despise misspelling on forums and then they make a post full of them... Seriously... Lizzie not only chooses her life but she chooses to post publicly about it.. she opens herself for all opinions on the subjects she creates threads about.. I also certainly didn't see Lizzie getting all upset about the posts on HER thread.. as always she never gets upset about opposition to her likes and dislikes.. unlike some people Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted August 8, 2009 Share Posted August 8, 2009 I think it takes ALOT to get Lizzie upset. She's a tough cookie and is happy and fine with her choices and doesn't care if those who don't like it complain or disagree. I know her thread probably has rubbed some the wrong way, but Lizzie's threads are full of honesty, like it or not.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lizzie60 Posted August 8, 2009 Author Share Posted August 8, 2009 I think it takes ALOT to get Lizzie upset. She's a tough cookie and is happy and fine with her choices and doesn't care if those who don't like it complain or disagree. I know her thread probably has rubbed some the wrong way, but Lizzie's threads are full of honesty, like it or not.. WWIU.. you're right.. it takes A LOT for me to get upset.. I have thick skin.. I'm old.. .. and like you said.. I don't really give a 'hoot' what people think about me.. The person that everything matters the most.. doesn't care: ME I can understand that this letter rubbed some the wrong way.. but hey.. raw truth can be painful to hear.. If those MMs weren't passionate about their OWs.. they wouldn't be together.. and passion is, IMO, the most important aspect in life.. and not just in relationships... I am passionate about a lot of things.. my kids, my friends, my work.. my life in general.. but most of all.. my lovers.. and I KNOW that this passion CANNOT last on a long-term basis with the same partner... So..when my MMs visit.. it is all about passion.. not love.. but passion.. and it's all good. Link to post Share on other sites
joyz Posted August 8, 2009 Share Posted August 8, 2009 Lizzie, ur really something! what is impressive is that right or wrong u live by ur own rules or make new ones. ur definitely not boring! Link to post Share on other sites
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