Auroracoladybug Posted September 11, 2009 Share Posted September 11, 2009 Hey BH and Tojaz...backslide with you all here...I have come to the conclusion that everything for me has to start over...well other than my son Where to start? who knows but atleast I have good friends for me...thank you all my LS friends Dela you too!!! Link to post Share on other sites
delajoonal Posted September 11, 2009 Share Posted September 11, 2009 hi all... tojaz is OK...i think he just needs some quiet time right now... been an overwhelming week...but i will let him post his thoughts... i just wanted everyone to know, cause i know you all care for him so much and he is our sweet friend...but we texted a bit tonight and he is ok... but like i said, i will let him post his own thoughts...i am sure he will be OK with me letting everyone know he is ok and we are all thinking of him and miss him. hope everyone is doing well...its been a rough week for some of us... my H finally served ME the big D papers..so needless to say... its been pretty rough...but tojaz has been an angel and helped me get thru this very hard week.... so maybe i am have exhausted him with MY crap..and NOW with his own stuff..well, i think he just is in need of a wee bit of quiet time.... ...i need to catch up on the board and do some reading..hope everyone is doing OK this week...sorry i have been in my own head and not too available...but i am here now..so please feel free to PM or post and whatever i can do, i am here:) much luv and big hugs... dela;) Link to post Share on other sites
delajoonal Posted September 11, 2009 Share Posted September 11, 2009 p.s. ladybug...i have been reading this great book called: The Bounce Back Book...it is very easy reading, and has humor too...and it is made of some material like a child's book, smells like barbie dolls...LOL anyway..i think you ( actually everyone will prolly really like it)...i got mine on that BIG online auction site (not sure if we can name other sites) it was free shipping and only about 7 bucks... it has some really great stuff in it...one liners to remember and some really funny stuff to make us laugh at our selves too... anyway..that is the ONE i am into right now...check it out..K:) ( LB i sent you a PM too) Link to post Share on other sites
Author tojaz Posted September 12, 2009 Author Share Posted September 12, 2009 I'm back. Just like Dela said. i just needed some quiet time to sort through the whole mess. A lot going on. I read the Email and apparently all the evil reasons she gave for divorcing me were misconceptions and "It just happened" Yes ruined my life, a life I spent 13 years building around her and "It just happened" Not abusive or controlling or any of that "IT JUST F****NG HAPPENED" Like that is an answer! Like i should just be able to accept that, Like it shouldn't hurt. Like it's no big deal! Sure, you stepped on my throat, but hey it happens lets be friends!:sick: Dela you didn't exhaust me, I'm more then happy to help. Everyone else, thanks for your concern. It's nice to know someones looking out for me. TOJAZ Link to post Share on other sites
NopeNah Posted September 12, 2009 Share Posted September 12, 2009 Another bullshi*t excuse is all that is. Good luck to you, man! Link to post Share on other sites
Auroracoladybug Posted September 12, 2009 Share Posted September 12, 2009 Tojaz it may have just happened for her but it blew up in your face...praying is right just another excuse to make them not the bad guy...All I know is that it gives me peace at night to know that I did all I could to make things better and I didn't sink so low as to treat him the way he treated me and that is how all of you my friends should give yourself a pat on the sholders Link to post Share on other sites
Author tojaz Posted September 12, 2009 Author Share Posted September 12, 2009 Tojaz it may have just happened for her but it blew up in your face...praying is right just another excuse to make them not the bad guy...All I know is that it gives me peace at night to know that I did all I could to make things better and I didn't sink so low as to treat him the way he treated me and that is how all of you my friends should give yourself a pat on the sholders Thats exactly what makes us LS'ers different then the walkaways! We valued our marriages and treated our commitment with honor and respect I couldn't sleep at night if I had done anything less. TOJAZ Link to post Share on other sites
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