energymatrix Posted November 13, 2003 Share Posted November 13, 2003 I kind of need advice on this.. In March, I started suspecting that my boyfriend was cheating on me. He would not call me as much as he used to, he would not pick up the phone on me when he went out or if we did not see each other in the evening. If he would come over my house, he would hang out until 3AM without calling me. Then he would give me excuses that he fell asleep at friends house, and his cell phoen died. But when I would ask him the next day about the phone, he would give me an entirely different story. Then I found girls Credit Card in his car, when I asked him about it, he said it was some girls at our friends house that he just gave a ride home. When I said I wanted to go there, since I never went to that friends house before, and just see the girl.. just for him to introduce us, he threw a fit... so that made me more suspicious, because if that was really nothing he would not care if I met her at all... then he broke up with me, by starting some pointless fight... Two weeks later my friend called telling me she saw him with another girl at our mutual friends Birthday Part.. I got him a cell phone for Valentines day, and it is on my name.. so just to see that I wasnt nuts, I went through the bills, I found her number on it at all times when we were not together.. around 40 times in a month, when I asked him.. he said he just spoke to her... at 1AM? bunch of times during the day.. I dont know if that can be called innocent talking... I called the number, but I couldnt say anything.. which I am regretting till this moment... The problem is I work with him, and he always tried to act like nothing happen.. and always gives me a lecture how I AM making him miserable.. that I should let go.. and etc... I can't let go, he hurt me and he doesnt even care.. it just kills me and I dont know how to get over it.. I keep wanting to call her and tell her that he was cheating..I am so bitter... help Link to post Share on other sites
lostforwords Posted November 13, 2003 Share Posted November 13, 2003 id say because you 2 arent together but you do work together is quit my job and find another one..... or at least ask him to quit becuase you 2 working together its just not going to get any better or easier.... you need to get out of the situation and concentrate on yourself now...... hes old news even tho the hurt is still there.... it may not get better when you see him on a daily basis especially at work and for god sakes cancel that cell phone subscription..... Link to post Share on other sites
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