Drained Posted November 13, 2003 Share Posted November 13, 2003 Hello, you may remember my post under "Marriage & Cohabitation" a few weeks ago. Sadly, things haven't got any better and I have come to feel that I should leave, I just don't know how to tell him or what to say. He lied again to me over something really stupid, but regardless it's still a lie, right? And I am left wondering, what else is he lying about. When I do find out about his lies and confront him he gets really mad at me, starts yelling. He told me he would cancel a subscription he has for one of his games because we don't play together anymore, I thought wow maybe there is some hope here, only to have him tell me the next day he decided to sign up for a new online game. He plays it constantly, I have expressed my concerns to him about that, about we don't do anything or spend time together. He asked me to join up with him, I told him I rather not. He keeps asking me everyday to signup, I still told him no. Anyways... I feel us distancing ourselves from each other. He is constantly in that computer room while I am out in the house doing other things or going out doors. He never wants to join me and do anything, except surf the net and play his games. I feel pretty empty inside, having headaches because I am stressing myself over this daily. How do I tell him I am leaving?? What do I say? I really want to tell him but a little part of me is holding onto what we had in the past, wishing that things would turn around for the better. After 10 years, how do you end it? How do you move on? When I am sitting at work, I tell myself this is not what I want for my future, I want out and I'll tell him when I get home...but when I get home this feeling washes over me that I should just cope with what I have, some people are worse off, maybe I am overreacting...then I get mad at myself because I can't say anything to him about it. I am looking for advice on how to tell him, also how do I cope with it myself. Thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
cliche_boy Posted November 13, 2003 Share Posted November 13, 2003 everquest or never winter nights? Link to post Share on other sites
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