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I posted near labor day b/c my boyfriends ex was hanging around and one night through herself across his lap. Following that, she thankfully disappearred.

 

I'm having other problems with my boyfriend now. We live about an hour apart and have very busy school/work schedules, so aside from weekends he usually sleeps over Wednesday nights. He has to wake up for work btwn 5-530am everyday, so I don't expect him to stay up late, but he almost always passes out by 9, and I dont get home till 7.

 

I get so angry at him b/c on weeknights that he doesn't visit me he goes to bars with friends until 12 or 1 am on a regular basis. when i confronted him he just says that its easier to stay awake at a bar than watching tv. i told him it'd be easier to stay awake watching tv if you weren't at a bar till 1am! We keep reliving the same fights, and i feel like nothing changes.

 

i get jealous easily, especially since the incident with his ex- g/f, but nothing makes him jealous. am i crazy for feeling like his lack of jealousy equates to a lack of love for me?

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ArdeaCandidissima

No, lack of jealousy does NOT mean lack of love. It could mean that he is mature, that he does not have a jealous nature, that he trusts you, or that he doesn't care about you. To figure out which it is, you need more information than this.

 

BTW - watch your own jealousy - it can break up an otherwise good relationship.

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