Online Dating

[Kristy19]

So as a joke my friends thought it would be funny to create a personal ad on a dating site because they think I've been single for a long time. Two years in my eyes is not a long time. I'm only 19. Anyways, in the process of this I started talking to a guy who was on the site. We've been talking for about 2 months now and he's told me more than once that he wants to meet me in person and that he thinks I'm the perfect girl for him. The problem is that he's still going on that site for I don't know what. I mean if I'm so called the perfect girl for him why would he still be on that site? So I guess what I want to know is should I ask him about it and decide whether or not I still want to talk to him or should I just tell him that I don't want to talk to him anymore?

PS: I haven't been going on the site since we started talking unless I get an email. And he Resides in GA, I stay in VA

[Bayern]

Maybe he is just talking with friends. Some people don't give out their e-mail address, which would require him to get on the site. I know I PM people on this site who prefer not to give me their e-mail or facebook info.

 

Could also just be something you say. "Perfect girl" is hard to get without even meeting in person. No offense of course, but there is something to be said about chemistry face-to-face.

[aerogurl87]

No offense of course, but there is something to be said about chemistry face-to-face.

 

Yeah I agree, then again if you two do meet and the chemistry is perfect then your one lucky girl. Happened for me, my SO said he wanted to marry me before we even met in person and well when we did meet the connection was instant and hit me like a bolt of lightning, lol. Anyway, ask him why he's still on the site. Like Bayern said he may have a legit reason like wanting to keep in contact with friends. If it's anything else though, I'd move on.