harmon25 Posted August 10, 2009 Share Posted August 10, 2009 Just quick background: 21 yo male end of junior year college in May ex told me things didnt feel right, needed break and space. I gave it to her. We talked here and there in June but did our own thing. Saw her once in July, said she didnt feel the same anymore, we broke up oficially 2 days later. Been like this for a month or so now. It has been difficult. We still talk here and there, but I am progressing in this. To be honest June was one of the worst times of my life. Confusion, anger, loneliness. I have been getting back out there, talking to girls, made out with 2 already. -So we go to the same college and she is back there already because she had to go early. We have decided to be friends, but I don't know how well that will work when school begins. However we do practically have all the same friends at school. Anyway I am going back in 2 days just for the night and am not sure if I should tell her I'll be there and ask if she'll be around. I have been debating it back and forth, but I still don't know. Part of me gets so angry when I think of her and how she decided to end things and how she made me feel. To be honest I want to be friends, but I don't wish her happiness in searching for anyone else and do still hope she realizes what she misses in me. Ugh I just don't know if I should meet up with her. I know if I do I need to be confident in myself and show her I'm better off without her and doing well. I just dont know though Link to post Share on other sites
Soul Bear Posted August 11, 2009 Share Posted August 11, 2009 Just go, dont tell her. If you dont see her so be it. You will find out afterwards if she cares still as she may get in touch and ask why you didnt tell her you were there...you cqan then say 'you asked for space' ALSO..DO NOT talk about your relationship or break with ANY of your mutual friends. Things will get back to her. Just enjoy yourself, have fun and let your hair down. If they ask just tell them you dont want to talk about it. This will further make your ex think as when she finds out you were there, she WILL ask them questions, so just be yourself, happy and upbeat, even if you got to fake it Link to post Share on other sites
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