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Was this a relationship or a fling?


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I have been friends with this guy for a while and recently we were at a party and both drunk, and we ended up making out. It was really akward, but after that, we hung out alot, and we were acting 'exclusive' with the kissing and whatnot. But it was never 'verbally exclusive'

Now, I don't know whats going on, I haven't seen or talked to him for three weeks, I know he is busy with work and school and such, but I have only talked to him online like 3 or 4 times in the past 3 weeks.

I'm not sure If this was really, 'nothing' to him, because i haven't even gotten a chance to talk about it. It ment alot to me cause I really wanted this, but I'm not sure about him.

Could it be that this wasn't important to him? I'm not even sure what to think... its driving me crazy.

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I hate to break it to you, Ms. but this guy probably isn't worth the trouble. this same thing happened to this girl i know and she ached over it just like you surely do. my best advice, put this behind you and don't let the feeling linger. it hurts now but eventually you'll laugh over this waste of space. i don't know how people can be so insensitive over stuff that can be so monumentally important to another person. i don't know how feelings can be diregarded so easily. i think i'll go and get drunk for both of us. :)

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