CM2009 Posted August 28, 2009 Share Posted August 28, 2009 dont be too hard on yourself over it. by the looks of things (and i know i am totally guilty of this too) lots of us seem to go back and forth. i think its ok to repsond /reply as long as oyu keep it friendly and short. and dont let on to anything about how you are feeling just like oyu are doing. come across as happy, busy, enjoying your life without them, which is were you want to be anyway. fake it till you make it. after awhile your heart will catch up to what your head already knows. and if she hits you up on your bday, same thing, keep it short and sweet if you want to reply with just a "thank you". sometimes i think if you ignore people they will think wow am i glad i ditched him he is a jerk. so i dont want to give them any reason to think that. i want to be the better person over it. Ok now Birthday came and went, she called me while I was on the clock and we talk literally for a minute and for some reason I was so uncomfortable talking to her I couldn't wait to get off the phone, why is that? Bday was nice went to work and spend time with family but it was different because it was the first time in 7yrs that we weren't together and I've been kinda down a bit from last night, I was ok earlier but as soon as the evening started the feelings of missing her came back... I can't lie I do miss her a lot.. Link to post Share on other sites
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