willingtotry Posted November 14, 2003 Share Posted November 14, 2003 This year (thank God it is coming to an end), I have made some terrible mistakes. MISTAKE #1 - Not completely breaking ties with my ex (6 year relationship) MISTAKE #2 - Rebounding HARD with a NEW girl. MISTAKE #3 - Rebounding HARD with a NEW girl on the JOB. MISTAKE #4 - Proceeding too fast with the NEW girl (spending all our time together) MISTAKE #5 - Continuing to involve the ex in my life because the NEW girl didn't want a relationship. Well the new year will be coming next month and what do I have to show for it? NOTHING... ABSOLUTELY NOTHING, but an experience I will never forget and the lessons that I have learned from that experience. Alot of times I let my emotions get the better of me, rather than seeing things for what they actually are. Although we observe people's actions, do we really observe ourselves enough. Sometimes we try to convince ourselves too much that we don't feel or feel a certain way about someone when in actuality we are lying to ourselves. Don't make the same mistake I did, you have to be true to yourself, before you can really be true to anyone else. Link to post Share on other sites
UCFKevin Posted November 14, 2003 Share Posted November 14, 2003 You say you wasted the year? Wrong. You went through a learning experience. That's a very important thing to go through. Link to post Share on other sites
Zankon Posted November 14, 2003 Share Posted November 14, 2003 6 years wow. How was the break up? Link to post Share on other sites
Author willingtotry Posted November 14, 2003 Author Share Posted November 14, 2003 Originally posted by Zankon 6 years wow. How was the break up? The breakup from my ex has definitely not been an easy road. Throughout the whole deal we have tried to be friends, share each other's experiences with the people we were dating, but in the end things did not work out so well. My ex actually got in the way of my own, because I guess she did not want me to be happy unless it was with her. I cannot blame her totally for her actions, as I still missed and loved her at the time and gave her food for thought about the possibility of us getting back together. Now I can clearly say that I love her, but I know that we will not be together. Link to post Share on other sites
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