After 2 weeks of NC, my dumper contacts me

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Sorry for the double-topic post, this section seems to be the right place to ask this question, got some good advice so far:

 

A quick recap on my breakup:

We dated for about 6 months. I think the biggest problem in our relationship was that she wanted/needed to be around me everyday and she felt that I wasn't there for her enough. I didn't mind the attention in the least, we were both infatuated with each other, but I had set boundaries to keep everything else in my life in check (School, military obligations, gym, etc.) In the process, I slowly became accustomed to ignoring her(which I regret), despite alot of things she did on her end to work with me. I went on vacation for a month in July, we talked/txted/emailed but not enough I guess. I came back, surprised her with a bracelet I got her, lit candles for her, massaged each other, and we had a great night together in bed, everything seemed fine. The following day, she went on a trip with her family to her brother's wedding.

 

She came back at first, crying about all the problems in her life to me, she doesn't know what to do or think, and tells me she loves me. The next day, she is very cold and distant, and gave me very ambigious answers(alot of "I don't knows") when I asked if she still wanted a relationship with me. I show up at 6am, uninvited, to her house and that's when she finally told me she lost all the feelings she had for me. The worst part is, she told me she felt this way 2 weeks before I went on vacation. We had some very intimate/deep conversations over the phone while I was on vacation, and hearing this made me feel it was all an act, a charade to string me along. I called her a liar and a waste of time, accused her of cheating, she said I was immature, and we parted ways on that note, I initiated NC right then and there.

Today, I decided I was going to clear my car trunk out of all her things forever, sort of an experiment on myself, to see if it would help me get over her. I bagged everything up, took it down to the range, and pretty much used the stuff as target practice. After about an hour of Rambo debauchery, not feeling much different emotionally, but the fresh air was very nice , I drive back and get the worst flat tire of my life. Smoke pours everywhere, sparks are flying off my front tire, and shreds of rubber fly all over the road(Karma maybe?). Anyways, I fix that up and then I get a txt from her about an hour later "Hey Josh, how've you been?" I laugh to myself at first at the irony of it all, and then slowly, all kinds of mixed emotions creep up on me, both good and bad.

 

I'm torn between simply ignoring her and trying to move on or responding with something simple to see where it leads. To be honest, I don't think my head is in the right place right now to start talking to her on a regular basis, but in my mind, I feel like this is my only chance to somehow reconcile before she's gone forever.

 

Tell me what yall think.