Kristy19 Posted August 15, 2009 Share Posted August 15, 2009 Ever since I was 16 and started to become my own person, I've never gotten along with my family especially two of my Aunts and my mom. Yesterday my Aunt called me and we got into it and she basically said **** you and hung up. This morning my mom and I got into it and she she said the same thing and that she wanted me out of her house. Well, I do everything for my mom and she treats me like crap. My Aunt, I've never gotten along with. With my mom I clean the house every time she makes it a mess because I can't live in filth and I cook. Every time we get into it she always says that she doesn't want me living with her. I have an older sister and my mom kicked her out when she was 16. I hate to say it but the way she treated my sister, she's treating me and I'm sick of it and personally I'm starting to think she never wanted kids because she's constantly talking about how her life would be so much better if she didn't have us. Also she talks to her sisters about this. Now that I'm taking off a semester so I can pay for school and my sister had a baby, my family basically written my sister and I off as the black sheep of the family. It's nothing new to us. After the argument this morning I would like to know what would you do if you were in this position? Link to post Share on other sites
arlene Posted August 15, 2009 Share Posted August 15, 2009 Sorry to say this but your mum seems to lack parenting skills and sounds a bit immature . Maybe she just has her own problems to cope with. She won't change and you sound incompatible living together. Maybe you should move out. Link to post Share on other sites
Liquid9898 Posted August 16, 2009 Share Posted August 16, 2009 How old are you? Do you have a job? Can you support yourself by renting a room somewhere else? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Kristy19 Posted August 17, 2009 Author Share Posted August 17, 2009 I'm almost 20 and I use to have a job but the place I worked at closed thanks to the economy but I'm currently looking for another job. Link to post Share on other sites
pisces6 Posted August 17, 2009 Share Posted August 17, 2009 i'm in a similiar situation. i stay positive and tell myself i have only few more years before i become a adult and can move out and if i want to never come back. maybe you could try that. i mean its just two years. as long as you focus and do well at school you'll be going to university and living on campus. good luck! hope i helped. Link to post Share on other sites
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