ladyRN Posted August 17, 2009 Share Posted August 17, 2009 Having myself been involved (if only briefly) with a separated man recently who returned to a so-called unhappy marriage. I am wondering what it is that makes someone so quickly go back to a relationship when they were so eager to knock what they had? I have discovered too that another ex of mine from a while back who also said his previous relationship was done for has also in fact returned to his ex-girlfriend. Both of these guys were so willing to tell me how they were so unhappy in these relationships, that they had wanted to get out for a long time, how they were never understood......you know the drill. I seemed to have learnt one thing from this. It has made me realise that anyone who is not over an ex will continue to go on about how unhappy they were in that relationship, they will put their previous partner down for a multitude of things, make them sound horrific. How ironic that this behaviour just signifies that they are just trying to convince themselves they are over their past and it is not really me (they are trying to convince). It has made me incredibly wary now of dating anyone who will continue to go on about how bad their last relationship was. A case of cut and run from now on. Going on previous experience all it seemed to cause me was grief and hassle. Anyone else had experience of this? Link to post Share on other sites
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