Scarlett513 Posted August 19, 2009 Share Posted August 19, 2009 Ok this is a little complicated so please bear with me. I have a coworker/friend who I've been working with for quite some time. There has always been chemistry and we have kind of an interesting history. We hooked up in the past with a not-so-good outcome and then both dated other people. Each of our relationships ended about a year ago and recently we have started hanging out again. When it started I was under the assumption that it was strictly a booty call/fwb situation. Only problem is, we never actually get to the benefits part bc he can't seem to stay hard. We have slept together before, no problems. All of a sudden this is an issue. I don't know how to deal with this - I hate having him feel so bad about it but I don't how to make him feel better or how to fix it. Also, I'm having a hard time believing that it's not me or somehow my fault. The second part of this is that this booty call/fwb situation seems to have recently started developing into something a little more than that. Certainly not a full-fledged relationship but suddenly we're cuddling, having dinner, and spending non-physical time together (we are doing other things besides sex). He's been doing thoughtful things for me and is willing to hang out even when he knows that due to feminine issues hooking up is not a possibility. So it's a really weird situation and I don't know what to do. He's my coworker/friend/booty call/potential relationship guy...?? I don't know what to do with his inability to have sex and I don't know what the changes in his behavior mean - am I reading too much into this or are his feelings for me changing? I'm not asking because I want to be a relationship with him - I honestly don't know how I'd feel about that at this point. I'd really appreciate any advice. Thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
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