Baz0005 Posted August 22, 2009 Share Posted August 22, 2009 Im 21, im a virgin, and im ok with this. At school i was too shy, i no longer have any trace of that issue, but it kept me single at school. Im now third year university and i find the problem is im very 'picky' with girls i want to go out with, so that though i have many opportunities, i pass them up because im not attracted. Then i get people sayin "im young and should be dating every other day" - are they attracted to just every girl or do they settle for some reason? I think the 'notch in the bedpost' kinda guys either are sleeping with girls i wouldnt or know about this place where all the hot girls hang out . There have only been a handful of girls ive been attracted to, and ive only dated one of them, a relationship i ended a year and a half ago- the rest i didnt date for a handful of circumstantial reasons, 2 because i was still too shy back then. My parents have said that being too picky will lead to me being lonely for a very long time. I dont really like being single, cuz im the kinda person who is happier in a relationship, but i cant bring myself to settle for a girl despite this. Is this a problem? If you have nay advice, i appreciate it. Link to post Share on other sites
Thaddeus Posted August 22, 2009 Share Posted August 22, 2009 Define "picky." In what way? Link to post Share on other sites
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