samsungxoxo Posted August 24, 2009 Share Posted August 24, 2009 So hypothetically if you were to cheat, is that really worth all the tears to be wasted on when you can easily work on your so called ''guilt'' by moving on and find someone else or going single like a ''free bird''. I'm not sure if my point of view is distorted but I have analyze the scene several times. If I were to cheat, no I would not cried nor asked for forgiveness as it would be a waste of time and I have other things to worry about suck as maintaining my job, continuing my studies and get my degree one day, go travel to many places (esp. the great pyramids of Egypt) and become a checkers champion off course. But to be stuck myself and spend time on ''Oh what have I done to hime'' and spend my life in remorse, plzzz. Sorry to be so harsh but that's my way of thinking as of now. It makes sense, doesn't it?? I mean you do at some point have to live your life to the fullest without focusing on past regrets... Ironically I have been faithful so far but I guess for the wrong reason.... Link to post Share on other sites
Spectre Posted August 24, 2009 Share Posted August 24, 2009 If you have so much stuff to worry about that you couldn't ask for forgiveness for cheating, then you shouldn't have time to be cheating in the first place. Anyways, is remorse necessary? Nope. However, if you're even a halfway decent person..you'd feel remorse for cheating on someone. That goes double for the people who convince themselves they "love" the person they cheated on. The fact that you basically came out and said if you cheated you wouldn't really feel bad about it is quite an alarming thing, and I truly feel sorry for whoever you're in a relationship with, as the poor guy probably doesn't know what is in store for him. Especially since according to your sig you're in a long distance relationship..man I feel sorry for your bf. I'd just dump the guy right now, you clearly don't belong in a relationship with a guy right now. Heck it sounds like you're getting ready to cheat. Link to post Share on other sites
Author samsungxoxo Posted August 25, 2009 Author Share Posted August 25, 2009 Heck it sounds like you're getting ready to cheat. But I haven't, that's all that matters don't you think? I may have thoughts and attempts on it but never transformed it into actions. That's like thinking and having attempts to rob a bank but you never actually do it so that doesn't counts.... Link to post Share on other sites
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