Alexis00 Posted August 25, 2009 Share Posted August 25, 2009 I have been reading a lot of these posts and everyone seems so lovely and helpful... I would sincerely appreciate any help you all could give me... thanks! I live and go to school in North Carolina and my sophomore year of college I met a guy. We hung out in group situations a lot, never alone. Our junior year of college, he transferred to a school in Mass, although his family lives here in North Carolina about 2 minutes away from me when I'm on campus. I never regarded him as relationship material for a few reasons, mainly (embarrassingly) I didn't think he was good enough looking, not to mention the distance that was eventually created. We talk[ed] often- usually over texts. The talking increased a few months ago to talking on MSN every day, also texting every day. By the way, we are both seniors in college now. At the beginning of August he came home to NC because of a relatives funeral. He came to see me and wow! We hung out for the first time alone and everything really seemed to click. He was so cute, nice, funny, etc. I tried to not let myself fall for him because of the distance. Well you guys know how that went . We didn't do anything physical. He went back to Mass and we talk for hours and hours a day. Usually about nothing. I am pretty sure all indicators point to him liking me-- but the thing is we never discuss a relationship between us, and even if I drop hints he gets uncomfortable. I think both of us have never been in a super serious relationship before (he is 22, I am 21) and I don't really think either of us know how to handle this PLUS the distance. Anyway- he graduates college in December and will be moving back to NC. I guess my question is- do I lay my feelings out on the table now, wait until he moves back here (which by then, my feelings may change), or wait for him to tell me? I'm so confused and don't know how this stuff works, particuarly because I don't want to have to involve emotions over someone so far away if I don't have to. Sorry for length. Link to post Share on other sites
TMichaels Posted August 26, 2009 Share Posted August 26, 2009 Why don't you quit trying to "put a label" on what you currently have and just enjoy it and see where it leads? He's coming back to your area in just a few months; you two can sort out what's going on between the two of you then. Best, TMichaels Link to post Share on other sites
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