sunnie23 Posted November 19, 2003 Share Posted November 19, 2003 I've been doing a lot of soul searching over the past two months. after ending a relationship that wasn't so great, i'm out in the dating world again and i'm finding it to be extremely scary. it's been about two months, and i keep meeting guys who seem quite nice. i'm so afraid to let anyone in though, i can see myself pushing people away and at the end of the day here i sit, alone and lonely. does anyone have any idea how to face these fears? i am so disappointed in myself that i want to cry......... Link to post Share on other sites
d1410 Posted November 19, 2003 Share Posted November 19, 2003 It takes courage to end a relationship and move on. It also sometimes takes awhile to jump back into the saddle. I was in a 10 yr relationship and suddenly one day it was over. At 27 yrs old, I was single, scared and very cautious of anyone new. That wore off fast enough though. Take time before you get into your next relationship. Spend time doing activities that you like and just enjoy being single. It can be awesome to do your own thing. The transition is hard but you'll be glad you did it. Remind your friends that you need them at this time. I know that really helped me get through the bad times. Good luck, d1410 Link to post Share on other sites
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