fabulousgal Posted August 28, 2009 Share Posted August 28, 2009 I'm not a big dater. This isn't by choice but more due to circumstances of working out of town (And the country) a lot. Also I am a little upfront if I am not interested I just say so and don't waste a person's time. I always have lots of guys hitting on me and complimenting me but its usually bartenders, hotel staff, waiters or guys at parties and bars because I am traveling! I don't interact with tons of people at work either as I work in very small teams and can't date my clients anyway. I was dumped pretty badly a few years ago and it took me a while to fully deal with it and realize I didn't need to be in a relationship or have someone validate me. I've been focusing a lot the past few months to be happy on my own and that will hopefully attract someone with similar interests. It has been working...but, Last night I went out with two good gf's who have just gotten into relationships. This dominated most of our time together and I haven't heard from someone I met a few weeks ago in a little over a week that I am pretty interested in. That kinda made me start to think about ALL of my failed dating situations over the last three years and how no one really seems to want to get to know me after 2-3 months. My whole life has been like this. I am 28 years old and the only "long term" boyfriend I've had was when I was 19 for 2 years. I'm so sad today, and I can't stop crying. I know its silly but I really just don't know what to do. I love my job and can't really get out of the traveling portion for the next couple of years. I hear constantly how pretty I am, how fun I am, what a catch I am, how nice I am...but I always get dumped after just a few months. I am really independent and never act needy etc. I am really afraid I am going to be single for the rest of my life and alone. Link to post Share on other sites
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