alphamale Posted August 28, 2009 Share Posted August 28, 2009 So last nite i'm at this ethnic dinner with around 15 people. There was this woman called Carmen sitting on the other side of the table from me but two people over. I didn't really talk with her much but she was attractive and probably around 40 i would guess. There was no flirting or any of that between us. Near the end of the dinner she hands me her business card and says "here's my card if you want to keep in touch". She had to reach over two people to give it to me. I don't recall seeing her giving her card to anyone else. So I guess i'm supposed to give her a call, innit? Guys what do you when you get an unsolicited phone number from a woman?? Link to post Share on other sites
jerbear Posted August 28, 2009 Share Posted August 28, 2009 So last nite i'm at this ethnic dinner with around 15 people. There was this woman called Carmen sitting on the other side of the table from me but two people over. I didn't really talk with her much but she was attractive and probably around 40 i would guess. There was no flirting or any of that between us. Near the end of the dinner she hands me her business card and says "here's my card if you want to keep in touch". She had to reach over two people to give it to me. I don't recall seeing her giving her card to anyone else. So I guess i'm supposed to give her a call, innit? Guys what do you when you get an unsolicited phone number from a woman?? If she is attractive and I'm interested. Call and say hi, then after the date, show her how you say "hello there!" Link to post Share on other sites
westernxer Posted August 28, 2009 Share Posted August 28, 2009 Guys what do you when you get an unsolicited phone number from a woman?? Call her in a few days and test the waters. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted August 28, 2009 Share Posted August 28, 2009 If a girl gave me her card I would think she was interested in me, she probably knows that the chances of meeting you around town or again are slim so she took the first step and gave you her digits... By the way.. it doesn't come off as desperate if that is what you are thinking.. Time for you to call... you got what would be known as a "Green Light" in my book Link to post Share on other sites
JackJack Posted August 28, 2009 Share Posted August 28, 2009 Sounds like she is interested. Give her a call , can't hurt to see. Link to post Share on other sites
Lyssa Posted August 28, 2009 Share Posted August 28, 2009 What sort of touch was she talking about? How was her facial expression when she gave you her card? Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted August 28, 2009 Share Posted August 28, 2009 Guys what do you when you get an unsolicited phone number from a woman?? That's easy Alpha... A guy would give her a call if he's interested.. simple as that. If she gave you her card.. she's interested... but she might have given it to other guys as well... Link to post Share on other sites
Author alphamale Posted August 28, 2009 Author Share Posted August 28, 2009 By the way.. it doesn't come off as desperate if that is what you are thinking.. no i wasn't thinking that... How was her facial expression when she gave you her card? i don't know, i was staring at her breasts Link to post Share on other sites
Lyssa Posted August 28, 2009 Share Posted August 28, 2009 i don't know, i was staring at her breasts Ahh! I knew it! Link to post Share on other sites
laRubiaBonita Posted August 28, 2009 Share Posted August 28, 2009 what does she do? what does her card say? Link to post Share on other sites
Author alphamale Posted August 28, 2009 Author Share Posted August 28, 2009 what does she do? what does her card say? it says: xxxxxxxx.com original paintings, acrylic, mixed media, photo editing, prints xxx@xxxxxxxx.com 773-xxx-xxxx chicago, IL 60645 carmen xxxxxxx Link to post Share on other sites
laRubiaBonita Posted August 28, 2009 Share Posted August 28, 2009 so she basically needs a free meal? Link to post Share on other sites
Author alphamale Posted August 28, 2009 Author Share Posted August 28, 2009 so she basically needs a free meal? i dont' know. i hope she has a day job. but in our short conversations we didn't talk about business or careers so she can't be hitting me up as a potential customer or business contact. Link to post Share on other sites
Porn_Guy Posted August 28, 2009 Share Posted August 28, 2009 alpha, a woman doesn't give a man her contact info unless she wants to see him again....sheesh you should know this already Link to post Share on other sites
laRubiaBonita Posted August 28, 2009 Share Posted August 28, 2009 i dont' know. i hope she has a day job. but in our short conversations we didn't talk about business or careers so she can't be hitting me up as a potential customer or business contact. i am just saying- original paintings, acrylic, mixed media, photo editing, prints- dosn't sound like a day job... unless she just happens to be that lucky. Link to post Share on other sites
Porn_Guy Posted August 28, 2009 Share Posted August 28, 2009 i am just saying- original paintings, acrylic, mixed media, photo editing, prints- dosn't sound like a day job... unless she just happens to be that lucky. yes i agree with LRB Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted August 28, 2009 Share Posted August 28, 2009 This could also be like a 'fake' card..just a 'card' to give out her number.. That's a good idea though.. to get some cards printed something like: Lizzie XXX Jet Pilot (xxx) xxx-xxxx xxx @ hot male dot com you know.. something like that.. Link to post Share on other sites
laRubiaBonita Posted August 28, 2009 Share Posted August 28, 2009 This could also be like a 'fake' card..just a 'card' to give out her number.. That's a good idea though.. to get some cards printed something like: Lizzie XXX Jet Pilot (xxx) xxx-xxxx xxx @ hot male dot com you know.. something like that.. i already use that one! Link to post Share on other sites
Author alphamale Posted August 28, 2009 Author Share Posted August 28, 2009 This could also be like a 'fake' card..just a 'card' to give out her number.. That's a good idea though.. to get some cards printed something like: Lizzie XXX Jet Pilot (xxx) xxx-xxxx xxx @ hot male dot com you know.. something like that.. hmm thats an interesting thought Link to post Share on other sites
Author alphamale Posted August 28, 2009 Author Share Posted August 28, 2009 WTF?! artist = no money Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted August 28, 2009 Share Posted August 28, 2009 Are we going to have another decidedly non-alpha thread? Pick up the phone and call her. Jeez... Link to post Share on other sites
Thaddeus Posted August 28, 2009 Share Posted August 28, 2009 This could also be like a 'fake' card..just a 'card' to give out her number.. That's a good idea though.. to get some cards printed something like: Lizzie XXX Jet Pilot (xxx) xxx-xxxx xxx @ hot male dot com you know.. something like that..I seem to recall there was an outfit that had a fake phone number service. You'd go to a website, register your name, it would provide you with a fake phone number for the girl to give out at clubs and whatnot. Then, when you called the number, a recording would say something like, "I'm not interested in talking or meeting with you. Good-bye." *edit to add* Found the website. http://www.humorhotlines.com/ Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted August 28, 2009 Share Posted August 28, 2009 I seem to recall there was an outfit that had a fake phone number service. You'd go to a website, register your name, it would provide you with a fake phone number for the girl to give out at clubs and whatnot. Then, when you called the number, a recording would say something like, "I'm not interested in talking or meeting with you. Good-bye." *edit to add* Found the website. http://www.humorhotlines.com/ Yabutt.. my fake card would have the right phone number and email.. otherwise I don't see the point.. only the 'profession' would be fake.. hahaha Link to post Share on other sites
Author alphamale Posted August 28, 2009 Author Share Posted August 28, 2009 Are we going to have another decidedly non-alpha thread? Pick up the phone and call her. Jeez... i'm not gonna call her for a few day, what do i look like, a jamoke? Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted August 28, 2009 Share Posted August 28, 2009 Hard to tell from your avatar The point is, be decisive. If you found her intriguing, decide that you'll call her, when you'll call her, and what you'll say. Over. done. This is what alpha's do. Link to post Share on other sites
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