do men want their women to act like porno stars in the bedroom?

[blue_eyes]

i was wondering some people's opinions.. my bf and i are very happy together.. i've been trying to think of ways to spice things up. he has some porn he watches.. and i admit, at first, i was a bit jealous. but now i have been trying to integrate some of those things into our sex life. i've tried to stop the same old same old and have him do me from behind and in the backdoor. ..i thought this is the kind of thing he wanted.. that guys want their women to do.. else they wouldn't fantasize about porn so much.. but instead.. he says he wants me to stop because he wants to be able to see my face when he is being intimate with me. i'm lost about this.. don't men want their women to do some of the things that go on in porn? just wondering...

thanks!

[Zankon]

I m a guy and I do occasionaly watch some porn by coincidence (friends and stuff) but never looked for it. Do I want my girl to act like a porn star? Noooooooooooo. Bed is very sacred for me and her. We are intimate to the max, explore each other, joke about new things, positions and use our own creativity. we usually turn a candle or two on, put some very soft music very soflty (bearly hear it) and do our things slowly and passionately.

 

It s called love!

[blue_eyes]

i agree that there is love involved during such an act.. we do love each other.. i just meant poronographic in the sense that the women in porn usually are open to a variety of things.. things that would make some people blush. and if he looks at it to begin with.. he must have some interest in performing those acts? don't most guys imagine all those possibilties?

[moimeme]

Something might look interesting in theory, but not at all so in practice. If you get a chance sometime, read a book on sexual fantasies. In one I read, people were asked if they would like to actually carry out their fantasy. A very large proportion said 'no'.

[yogi-mon]

The trouble with "Acting like a porn star" is engaging in that kind of sex takes alot of self confidence.

If its not done correctly, it will feel "fake". It will feel unnatural. Certainly some men would like to experience

porn style sex. No doubt about it. No woman, or man would want to have sex in a way they do not feel

totally at ease.

 

If you dont feel comfortable and natural having porn style sex, then dont do it. Stick to what feels most

comfortable.

-Dont be afraid of experiementing though!

[Arabess]

I've always felt there is a time just to have SEX.....a time to make love....and then there are those perfect relationships when you can do both at the same time.