SummerLady Posted August 31, 2009 Share Posted August 31, 2009 I have a dear friend who I have known for many years and I love dearly. She has been divorced for about 7 years. Her marriage was not the ideal, she got married pretty young, had kids right from the word go and by the time they reached their early 30's they both agreed to move on. Their divorce was not all that bad they agreed on much and there was little fighting. She then went dating crazy. I assume this is becasue she spent much of her 20's married with kids. She enjoyed herself and had fun. She had 3 or 4 serious boyfriends during this time and when it came to commitment time she pulled the plug. Fast forward to now. She met a man she said is her soul mate and she wants to marry him. She has been serious before but this time it seems different. I hope she is on the right track as she was in serious relationships before. Not judging just wanted to see if anyone had exp with this. Link to post Share on other sites
xpaperxcutx Posted August 31, 2009 Share Posted August 31, 2009 Is there something about the "soulmate" that makes you question their relationship? If not, why can't you just be happy for her? She's a big girl and can take care of herself. Link to post Share on other sites
Author SummerLady Posted August 31, 2009 Author Share Posted August 31, 2009 Is there something about the "soulmate" that makes you question their relationship? If not, why can't you just be happy for her? She's a big girl and can take care of herself. I am happy for her. Just saw her go through so many serious relationships I wonder why is this one different that is all? Or maybe she is just ready to be commited now and was not before? Wanted to know if anyone here who got married young waited and went through the same pattern. Just curious........ Link to post Share on other sites
xpaperxcutx Posted August 31, 2009 Share Posted August 31, 2009 I am happy for her. Just saw her go through so many serious relationships I wonder why is this one different that is all? Or maybe she is just ready to be commited now and was not before? Wanted to know if anyone here who got married young waited and went through the same pattern. Just curious........ Oh I see. I can't tell you about marriage ( even though I've seen my own mother get married twice) but I think it's similar to breaking up and deciding when to get back to dating. Sometimes a person can go through a slump or in your friend's case date rampantly until she found her current guy. If a person can let go of their past and move on emotionally, it isn't hard to get back into a relationship with another person let alone get married again. Link to post Share on other sites
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