MArtist Posted September 1, 2009 Share Posted September 1, 2009 My wife of fourteen years had an ongoing affair with who was a good friend of mine. She continued to lie to me and our marriage counsulor for four months, that she was having no contact at all with OM. She got busted and it became apparent that she never stopped seeing him. One week from today our divorce will be finalized. Having a difficult time dealing with the betrayal not only of a spouse but of someone I once considered a friend. Link to post Share on other sites
seibert253 Posted September 1, 2009 Share Posted September 1, 2009 My wife of fourteen years had an ongoing affair with who was a good friend of mine. She continued to lie to me and our marriage counsulor for four months, that she was having no contact at all with OM. She got busted and it became apparent that she never stopped seeing him. One week from today our divorce will be finalized. Having a difficult time dealing with the betrayal not only of a spouse but of someone I once considered a friend. Sucks M, but you've got to look forward, not back. Any kids? Look forward to being a much better father. Look forward to doing what you want, when you want, without having to get a hallpass from the W. Look forward to taking your kids on excursions, without having to appease the W. Look forward to sitting in your living room on Sunday's, drinking beer, watching football, and sitting around in your boxer shorts. Look forward to going out to a club or bar, and watching, looking at, talking to, dancing with, and hanging out with beautiful women, and not having to deal with the consequences of your W. Look forward to you making the choices, not the W. Look forward, not back. Link to post Share on other sites
mark982 Posted September 2, 2009 Share Posted September 2, 2009 buddy, i can relate to wife messing around w/ a good friend. we also divorced,i think it was harder for me to get over a friend screwing me over,than my ex. i wish you the best. Link to post Share on other sites
2.50 a gallon Posted September 2, 2009 Share Posted September 2, 2009 Nothing worse than a buddy f**ker. Amongst my friends, wives and GFs were strictly off limits, and in fact I am also my friends wife of GFs protector. Should any of my friends wives develop an affair, the OM would likely suffer physical harm. That is in the past. Time now to prepare yourself to find somebody new Link to post Share on other sites
Author MArtist Posted September 2, 2009 Author Share Posted September 2, 2009 Yeah I'm trying to move on and adjust to my new life. As far as the OM suffering harm that pussy moved far away once he found out I knew and we were getting a divorce. He told a few people that he needed to get out of town because he thought I might kill him. I hate to say it but he was probably right. I was surprised to learn that there are a lot of single women out there. I'm not sure what I want at this point. I do have a "female friend" that I hang out with. This is a little strange because it is the ex wife of the OM. She was close friends with my ex, so she and I have a lot in common having both been betrayed by a friend and spouse. Link to post Share on other sites
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