dianna Posted September 5, 2009 Share Posted September 5, 2009 So what was your ex doing during the break up? I know my ex started to drink.Yupeee Link to post Share on other sites
logitech Posted September 9, 2009 Share Posted September 9, 2009 My ex said she needed time and space to understand who she was just over a month ago. We lived together for 5 years and were engaged 7 months ago. I am trying to do NC at the moment. I failed pretty badly the weekend before last and basically had to start again. I have blocked her from my MSN and most of what I am doing on Facebook she can't see either now. I have also stopped looking at her Facebook page. This was probably the most important thing I did. I am starting to feel a little empowered by doing NC because it gives you back some control. It is hard to do but if you have already spilled all your feelings after the break, there isn't anything more begging is going to do. Now that I have have gone NC she contacted me about my hockey finals and when they are on. I know that I would love to see her go but the important thing for me is to just play it cool and let her come if she wants. The only reason people ever do anything is because they want to. You can't change that. Here's to hoping things work out eventually. Link to post Share on other sites
SweetyBear Posted September 10, 2009 Share Posted September 10, 2009 The only reason people ever do anything is because they want to. You can't change that. Here's to hoping things work out eventually. Truer words were never spoken. My ex and I have been broken up for a bit over five months. I did everything I could think of to do or to say and he didn't seem to budge. He would make plans with me (I think because he'd end up feeling sorry for me), but then he'd never follow through. I was never able either to keep up that strict NC that some people do. I did the breaking up and so I knew it was my fault. I had my reasons at the time, but being without him made me realize how foolish I was and how I was letting my insecurities rule me. Sorry, I digress. Anyway, I was just agreeing that people only do things because they want to. Out of the blue, my ex called me after having ignored me many times and told me he loves me and wants "us" back. We are meeting on Saturday to talk it all through. BTW, going to the Poconos to celebrate getting back together sounds very sweet!! Link to post Share on other sites
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