maxmuscle Posted November 20, 2003 Share Posted November 20, 2003 My ex girl who broke up with me calls me to say how she like how I keep the converstions short and simple these days. She said it in a sarcastic way! I just don't want to let her know how much I've missed her. I don't want her to feel my emotions over this breakup so I keep the conversations short and simple. I keep the emails short with no more than three words, the conversations on the phone no more than three words; hi, by, and, take care. The more I talk to her, the more my feelings might start to show then the ball will be back in her court, which has always been in her court. Is this the right thing to do? This is a sick game to play, but what choice do I have? I am not over her! I love her so much! Link to post Share on other sites
UCFKevin Posted November 20, 2003 Share Posted November 20, 2003 Well, I'm not a lady, but yeah, what you're doing is the right thing to do, as long as you aren't being totally apathetic and just like, "Yeah, whatever." Don't act like she means nothing to you but don't act like she means the world to you, neither. SHE broke up with you, you don't really have to do anything different. Keep on! Link to post Share on other sites
lostforwords Posted November 20, 2003 Share Posted November 20, 2003 I agree with Kevin.... dont do anything more differently than your doing..... shes trying to get you to open up more so when she hears how you actually feel and that your going thru hell BAM.... thats when the manipulation starts... shes fishing dood..... keep up whjat your doing... maybe cold... however why should you be her target when she starts playing with yoru heart again..... Link to post Share on other sites
HokeyReligions Posted November 20, 2003 Share Posted November 20, 2003 I guess I'm confused. She broke up with you. Why are you two even communicating anymore? Once you break up it is over. Move on with your life and tell her that it's over and you need to not have any contact anymore. No contact is the best way to get over someone - the more contact you have the longer, and more painful, it will be. Link to post Share on other sites
Author maxmuscle Posted November 20, 2003 Author Share Posted November 20, 2003 HokeyReligions, I did tell her to get on with her life and not to call me any more. She told me I was being harsh! Why is she hanging around? Link to post Share on other sites
HokeyReligions Posted November 20, 2003 Share Posted November 20, 2003 She is the only one who knows why she is still hanging around. I couldn't hazard a guess. Can you block her calls and emails? If she thinks you are being harsh - that is her problem. You are handling your breakup the way you need to handle it. Her feelings don't matter to you now - she's going to let herself be hurt, or not, no matter what you do. Link to post Share on other sites
UCFKevin Posted November 20, 2003 Share Posted November 20, 2003 Could be a few reasons. 1) SHe genuinely loves you and wants to come back, just needs some time to herself. 2) SHe's doing what she wants, when she wants, and wants to know that you'll be in the background waiting for her. 3) She's screwing with your emotions, or attempting to. Don't discount #3. You may think you know someone but they could turn around on you in an instant. Link to post Share on other sites
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