urbiz4u Posted September 2, 2009 Share Posted September 2, 2009 It can be easy to become swallowed up into feelings of panic and desperation after a break up. Your mind begins to move in a hundred different directions and your just not sure what you should do or who you should listen to. Before you do anything that will make the situation worse, focus on the 3 steps outlined here. This will help you get more control of yourself and the situation Step 1: Stop All of the drama and mixed emotions can make it difficult to think clearly. This is why you simply need to stop everything for at least one day. Step 2: No Ex…for now Most people think the best way to get your ex back is to keep calling them and saying you miss them, love them, etc. The fact is that chasing your ex right after a break up is only more likely to turn them away. Step 3: Plan Your Strategy This is the most important step in getting your ex back. Too many people are over-confident in their abilities to win back a lover. Remember, you are trying to draw curiosity, attraction, and passion from your ex. These emotions are strong enough to overpower anything that has happened in the past. Reflect deeply on your relationship and brainstorm ways that you can grab your ex’s attention and make them feel the attraction that brought you together in the first place. Link to post Share on other sites
CaliGuy Posted September 2, 2009 Share Posted September 2, 2009 Sorry, but this thread makes me laugh. It's disappointing to see people preying off the emotional distress of others to sell crappy, worthless e-books that do nothing but give people false hope Link to post Share on other sites
ATR Posted September 2, 2009 Share Posted September 2, 2009 Agreed with Cali - one of these e-books caught me out just after my ex dumped me. They teach you nothing more than you can get on this forum! They give you false hope by telling you to break NC after a set ammount of days/months, which will keep curiosity up - lies. Do not get scammed/tricked like i was. Link to post Share on other sites
JL911 Posted September 2, 2009 Share Posted September 2, 2009 They prey on your despiration...Even I paid for the Magic of Making up, I was so lost and looking for anything that would help...while im sure it can work...I dont know for how long...Even they tell you in the book it is not a fool proof method. Just realize your self worth...walk away and if the person realizes they made a mistake and miss what they lost they will come looking and make an effort. From there you just take a slow reconsiliation. However, by that time you might already be in a better place and not need the negativity that surrounded them at the time of your break up. Thats really all I have as far as advice goes...Manipulating someone back into a relationship will just not work...Especially long term. Link to post Share on other sites
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