All this talk about romance after marriage, have to ask what is it??? And.....

[Woggle]

Hmmm I wonder about alot of things too. I mean never in my life has a woman brought me a gift. or offered to take me out to a movie or buy me flowers or chocolates, or anything like that.

 

I want to be pampered too! lol.

 

Good luck with that. I hope you do find a woman who will do that for you but don't count on it. With most women it is all about them and your desires are an afterthought if thought of at all.

[PandorasBox]

Good luck with that. I hope you do find a woman who will do that for you but don't count on it. With most women it is all about them and your desires are an afterthought if thought of at all.

 

 

Does your woman do that for you Woggle?

[Woggle]

Does your woman do that for you Woggle?

 

Yes she does. For a woman to get woggle to marry her she has to be something special.

[PandorasBox]

Yes she does. For a woman to get woggle to marry her she has to be something special.

 

 

Well this is true!

[GorillaTheater]

8 Kids!!!!! Shouldn't you have a Reality show on TLC;). I have more then enough and it is 23 years living together (17 married) and only 2 kids on top of each other.....

 

It could well be that there's been way too much "looking" and "touching" in our marriage.

 

Usually, anyways.

[Toodamnpragmatic]

I'll be honest when I say most men (and of course only talking about me) don't really want presents, and have never heard a single one states their spouse/girlfriend wasn't romantic enough or bought him anything...... They want their spouse to give them space if they want to play golf do their hobby, watch their shows within reason (i.e. Sopranos or Football), maybe out with the guys every once in a while, or more importantly surprise them with sexy lingerie and an evening of wild sex....

[giotto]

I'll be honest when I say most men (and of course only talking about me)

 

 

since when you are most men?

[Mz. Pixie]

My husband loves to receive little gifts. The other night I brought him home a package of Cinammon Pita Chips that he couldn't find in the local store the other day. He was thrilled.

 

Romance is different for everyone. What one thinks is romantic the other one doesn't. It depends on what your primary love language is. The problem is that we try to meet the need in our partner how we "want" it to be met.

 

For example- the woman will buy her husband a card- when that's really the kind of romance she wants. The husband just wants frequent, enthusiastic sex.