CompletelyNumb Posted September 5, 2009 Share Posted September 5, 2009 I've been seeing this man for 9 months, he's not the most affectionate person which is an issue, he gets angry when I confront him about his behavior and he refuses to answer my calls..he says he'll call me but then doesn't and when I ask him about it he simply says he didn't want to. There's much more but long story short I'm at my breaking point, I love him to death..god only knows why..but I cant continue to be mistreated like I am so I'm planning on ending it tonight. The problem is we are co-workers, I don't know how to handle this situation. It's going to be extremely painful to see him on a daily basis or rather when we have work to do. My hours are down..I'm lucky to get 15 hours a week and things don't seem like they're gonna change anytime soon. My question is..since my boss has offered to put me on "layoff" so I can actually get a steady paycheck every week until things pick up would that be the best way for me to go? Should I bow out? Get myself out of a potentially nasty situation? I mean with the layoff I will at least make several hundred dollars a week whereas now I'm lucky to pull down $150. I was thinking leaving is better..financially and emotionally. Link to post Share on other sites
PinkToes Posted September 5, 2009 Share Posted September 5, 2009 I can't think of a reason why this wouldn't be the best thing for you to do. Sounds like the work option came at exactly the right time. And that would be true whether you ended the relationship or tried to make it work -- either way, you'll have greater peace of mind. Good luck to you; I hope things get better soon. Link to post Share on other sites
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