truegirl Posted September 6, 2009 Share Posted September 6, 2009 Hello I'm new to this forum... I have a few questions I have been seeing a guy for about a month. He treats me very well; we have done a slew of different things together. From dinner at my home, drag races, playing pool, drinks etc... He is someone that I am very interested in and we have a great time together. We agreed to take things slow and see what happens... His words "If it's meant to be it will happen." The first week I met him I also went out on a date with someone else. During that date the only thing I could think about was him. I felt so awful that I told him about it; he was very happy with my honesty and told me not to worry about it. We text a couple times a week and see each other once a week as well. He is not seeing anyone else; is flattered when I ask him to do things with me. We are both 34, college educated. I have a 7 year old son and he does not have any children. So here are my questions: I usually like to have a little more contact with a person then a couple texts per week... How do I bring this up? Seeing him one time a week is fine. We both have lives It's too early to say we are a couple or be serious, but how do you explain to someone that I'm a package deal; meaning I have a child... When is the time to ask to be serious, exclusive or what-ever? What is the time frame? I apologize for this being so long... Need help... lots of anxiety Link to post Share on other sites
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