A letter that is to be sent !!!!

[Tarantula]

Yes, it is .

 

I suspect :

 

- You are playing behind my back

and throwing this all in my face .

 

- You are having fun with all possible women

and asking me to stop even the virtual flirting .

 

- You are gonna laugh at me

and actually you are already DOING it .

 

 

 

 

Very wise from your side ,

 

but you could just tell me to f*ck off ,

 

I would do it surely , you know , very quickly ,

 

you would have never waited a minute ,

 

I would just go and leave .

 

 

So you are not that wise as you think you are .

 

But you are a very big sh*t .

 

Not just sh*t .

 

But a very big sh*t .

 

 

Asking me to stop with flirting online ,

 

you yourself do show me your committments to others ,

all possible ,

 

you yourself do show me your love for fun ,

endless fun going to nowhere ,but frustration ,

 

you yourself do show me NO RESPECT TO MY FEELINGS ,

NO RESPECT TO MY COMMITTMENT [**** IT,**** YOU TOO]

NO RESPECT FOR ANY YOUR OWN WORD TELLING ME .

 

 

 

 

THE TWO GUYS "FOREVEROWNED" TO QUERIDA

AND "ALWAYSREADY" TO **** OR LICK ANY ONE

ARE YOU IN REAL .

THESE PROFILES ARE YOURS

AS THE NARRATING STYLE THEY USE ARE YOURS VERY ACCURATELY , "BABY BOO"

F*CK YOUR BOO WOO AND HOO

ALL TOGETHER

I F*CK ALL THE DREAMS

YOU ARE A BIG SH*T AND NOT A DREAM COME TRUE

 

 

YOU HAVE NO SIMPLE RESPECT TO ME

JUST SIMPLE RESPECT TO AVOID AND NOT TO SHOW ME

ALL YOU ARE DOING .

 

F*CK YOUR WORDS

THEY DO MEAN NOTHING

 

F*CK ALL YOUR LETTERS

I HATE THEM

 

F*CK ALL YOUR IDEAS OF THE "life" TOGETHER

 

F*CK ALL YOUR STORYTELLING

 

 

I KNEW YOU ARE A SNAKE

BUT YOU ARE A SH*T SNAKE

THE MOST AMAZING BY HIS POISON .

 

 

 

I REALLY HATE YOU

OR RATHER I HATE ALL THIS SH*T

AND YOU...

HEH ... YOU ... YOU ARE JUST A PIECE OF SH*T .

A BIG PIECE OF SH*T .

 

 

 

 

I QUIT .

 

F*CK YOU .

[Tarantula]

F*ck you !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

 

 

You have no soul,no heart,no mind !!!!!!!!!

 

You are a mistakenly made experimental human .

 

As you had to be born a snake .

 

The experiment failed .

 

In a human body you poison all others` lives .

 

As your soul and heart are of the snake !

[Adri Ana]

Cool down,no one deserves heating up .

Look around , so much joy and happiness may be found .

Never concentrate on someone so much to allow yourself to lose your face in anger ,listen to me .

Life is going on , move on and leave the sh*t back of your life .

 

Best of luck!

[TaraMaiden]

Don't send the letter.

it makes you sound like an hysterical chick who's losing the plot.

 

Really, I wouldn't.

you know why?

he will just laugh, show it to everyone he knows (and you probably knew too) and they'l wonder what the hell you're on.

 

It will do nothing for you.

[Artu]

Look, Tarantula ,

 

rereading your letter to be sent [it is to be sent]

I think that the affair is too dramatic here .

You do not need to receive all this way .

Just follow your own mind and instincts .

Send it if you feel like that .

And say good bye . Move on .

[carhill]

Guess I'm lucky no woman ever 'loved' me that much. Yikes...

 

Hey, letter sending appears to becoming a LS pastime. What the heck. Vent away

[Thaddeus]

Cheeses of Nazareth! Sweet Mary, Mother of Pearl!

 

Tarantula, if that's your goal to come across to your ex and every one of his friends and acquaintances as an erratic psycho, then by all means send it.

 

Conversely, you could take the high road and know in your heart that you're lucky to be free of him and move forward without bitterness or recrimination, with lesson learned.

 

Choice is yours.

[Adri Ana]

carhill,

 

you probably are not lucky enough

 

Tarantula ,

 

send the letter , get the jerk off your life forever ,

such p*ssy guys are spoiling many lives .

Dun let him spoil yours .

Go away from him after expressing all you think = the best moving on .

[carhill]

carhill,

 

you probably are not lucky enough

LOL, I wrote that letter many years ago and sent it, intended for a certain husband. Recognizing one's own insanity is a great impetus to seeing it in others. At the time, I was insane (not legally, but whoa, what a mess). The OP's words bring those young years back in an instant. I vented, and later felt like a fool. As a mature adult, I now see how unhealthy that kind of 'love' is. YMMV

[IntoLove]

as a man I would use that technique to get rid off the woman

that is like a stick in my a**..haha ...

so ,Tarantula,you either send it or not , just know one thing : he wanted to go back to his past life whatever life he had before you

and to depart from you .. so not having any courage of telling you straight , he decided that you should leave him yourself ..

actually he is RESPECTING YOU as giving you the ball in your hands ...

so do not say that he does not respect you ,

simply he does not want you .

So move on and on away from him , as far as possible ..

[Benique]

IntoLove, It is not called respecting her giving the ball into her hands , it is called having no guts to tell the truth .

Having no guts to tell in face that he is seeking something new and needn`t her actually any more .

 

 

Go , girl , you will get more and more hurt with a person who is constantly hurting you by his sh*t .

If he was respecting you , he would never behave that way .

 

 

And remember one thing :

 

The man that has No Respect to a Woman is actually even more dangerous than the one that has just No Love to her .

 

He does not need you .

Why should you need him ? What for ?

 

 

Live your life happier without the sick guy, girl . Move on .

[Adri Ana]

Tarantula,

 

I suggest you to

 

~ Stay in NC .

 

~ Reread your emotionsfull letter , how hysterical it may seem to you tomorrow - this does not matter . Just reread and remember the emotions you had writing that .

 

~ Know your own value . You have all rights to defend your self from further hurts you will have with this guy .

 

~ Stay constant,stable and solid with your profound decision to get rid off the sh*t you were in for all the time you thought of the dream come true .

 

Dreams come true , but many times we are mistaken in reality .

 

There will come the time yours will come true too , life never ends

and when it ends you actually will not feel any more . So no worries , girl !!

 

 

 

Sh*t IS TO GET REMOVED !

So , I wish you the powers not to enter mistaken dreams again ,

but stay in the reality building your life with real people who surely love you just for being yourself and respect you as a person and as a woman .

[IntoLove]

The sh*t is to be removed for sure .

Even just sh*tty people around you and the "sweetheart" so to say that appears to be the sh*t - in the first turn !

[Tarantula]

Thanks to you all for supporting me .

 

I am rather solid and was hurt many times by him

though his snake attitude was too sweet after the

breaks to make me reconcile with him ...

and I did loved him .... that`s true ...unfortunately ..

however he showed me many times that he is not the one whom one can ever lean on ...

 

1- he was in a relationship with my friend parallely with me ...

it hurt me like hell as I was trusting him .. he was at that time parallely flirting with her ... the NC was for 6 weeks ...

 

I forgave .

 

2- he made fun on me on the forum that was seen by all , invited me there himself and showed me how actually he was spitting into my soul ..

it was a very deep hurt and the NC went on for two months ..

 

I forgave .

 

3- he was asking to meet during 2 months ...we were only talking on phone , but did not meet ... he was telling me fairytales about the love he f*cking did not have in real any feelings I am sure of that ..

when I told him to meet he just made fun on me again and did not meet ..but played hard .. the NC was for 1 week ..

 

I forgave .

 

4- [you see my thread here]

 

I WILL NOT FORGIVE !

I AM TIRED TO GET HURT EVERY TWO MONTHS , HARDLY THREE MONTHS HE IS OK .

 

I AM TIRED !

I JUST LOVED HIM ..

HE SPITTED INTO MY SOUL AGAIN .

 

HE HAD NEVER BEEN COMMITTED TO ME ... never ... by no cell ever ..

while I WAS COMMITTED WITH MY ALL ... he knows this .. but prefers to spit again at me ..

 

I wont forgive .

The NC will last forever .

 

 

Tarantula .

 

There were many ups and downs except those I described ...

there were DOWNS except these ... but we overcame all ..

however he again appeared to be a f*cking sh*t ... how much I try to maintain the relationship ... I cannot love a snake ..

he proved me many times how much of a Snake he is .

 

I cannot love any more ..

Actually I do not want to love any more .. not him anyway ..

I am detached .

[Benique]

Calm down , my dear .

 

If you can get detached like my little daughter [who is 22 now] ,

then it really helps .

The detachment by soul and heart will help your mind relax

and get powers to overcome all , to win yourself .

 

 

Once I mentioned my little daughter ,

I shall tell you about my elder daughter though she was the reason I came to loveshack,

but you probably do not remember my story of her .

She was in love for 8 years . Eight years she was trusting her man with closed eyes . She saw just Love in him ...

He was promising her to marry ... and my daughter denied all the proposals she had got ... time passed ... we with my husband were telling her to open her eyes , but she would not hear ...

at last he married ... he married another girl whom he proposed ,

but he used my daughter all 8 years ...

the scar in her big loving heart was too big and hurting .. as she denied herself her own life because of him , and he betrayed her this way ..

Though From the side it was obvious he was never committed to her like she was by her all heart and soul , my girl ..

From the side it`s clear your man does not love you and never did ,

but he played really well with you , do not give him your soul to tear into pieces ...scars do not heal so quickly ... and so many for sure ..

just go away .. wish him the best and to get back all he deserves and do NC forever . You do not need him who breaks your heart every two-three months,my dear .

[Artu]

You had to end the relationship long ago ,

actually at the moment you caught him flirting with your friend

already this showed his total disrespect and absence of love,Tarantula .

Where were your eyes then ? Where did you look at ? At some iceberg in the Atlantic Ocean or at the Eiffel Tower from too much romanticism , my dear ?

[FairyTale73]

The end always hurts .

But the end is the beginning always .

The beginning of something brighter,the start of something greater .

 

So life is ,recycling and transformating all .

 

Good luck to you , young girl .

 

You will have your luck , you`ll see .

 

It will be a happy life without hurts .

 

Just get rid off all that hurts .

 

 

Then the New starts .The New life , the New era , the New time .

Time to live and create , to do kind , to smile and laugh , time to have tears from joys , time to feel your first wrinkles around your eyes ...

Time always comes .. New Time .. Have the trust .

 

And every time is the Time you NEED , you MUST Live and Live with the Smile . Just believe ...