MrMayI Posted September 11, 2009 Share Posted September 11, 2009 Hi SHB No contact for over 3 months (I've stopped counting, which I guess is progress in itself?) I went NC b/c every time I spoke with him, even if it was on a legal or admin matter (like the bank messing up the closing down of our joint accounts, for example), he was aggressive and nasty with me. I even sent him is cheque books (bank screwed up, got sent to my new address), he didn't even text to say thanks! So, NC b/c it is hurtful to talk with him. I know I shouldn't call him and I won't. I just have a very strong desire to call him up just to have a go at him, I guess you could say I am VERY ANGRY today! But I won't. i'm with you lisa. i have the desire for something like that. something i haven't done through it all. to call and just scream "WHY?!!!?? HOW???!!!??? WHO THE **** ARE YOU, AND WHAT DID YOU DO WITH MY WIFE????!!!?????". it will do zero bit of good. Link to post Share on other sites
lupa Posted September 11, 2009 Share Posted September 11, 2009 i'm with you lisa. i have the desire for something like that. something i haven't done through it all. to call and just scream "WHY?!!!?? HOW???!!!??? WHO THE **** ARE YOU, AND WHAT DID YOU DO WITH MY WIFE????!!!?????". it will do zero bit of good. Shoot, I saw my wife driving the car I bought her today, and I'm pretty sure she saw me. I wanted to call her and try to be nice, but I decided to not talk to her at all. Ever again. Not only would that conversation degenerate into what you wrote above, but I'd also probably say some things to intentionally hurt her...and I'm better than that. I hope. Link to post Share on other sites
tojaz Posted September 11, 2009 Share Posted September 11, 2009 (yeah, I'm back) Everybody, take it from me, the less contact the better. Any attempt to share your feelings with them is just going to throw you deeper in the hole. THEY DON'T GET IT!!! Take it from me, I am desperately clawing myself out as we speak. All the progress and all that I have learned and try to share with you all was not enough to trump one stupid E-mail, that really didn't say much. NC if only they would stick to it too. You want to walk away from me!!!! KEEP ON WALKIN! Back from the brink! TOJAZ Link to post Share on other sites
MrMayI Posted September 11, 2009 Share Posted September 11, 2009 (yeah, I'm back) Everybody, take it from me, the less contact the better. Any attempt to share your feelings with them is just going to throw you deeper in the hole. THEY DON'T GET IT!!! Take it from me, I am desperately clawing myself out as we speak. All the progress and all that I have learned and try to share with you all was not enough to trump one stupid E-mail, that really didn't say much. NC if only they would stick to it too. You want to walk away from me!!!! KEEP ON WALKIN! Back from the brink! TOJAZ i applaud you, dude. i knew you just needed some time to stew. hope you're okay today. Link to post Share on other sites
tojaz Posted September 11, 2009 Share Posted September 11, 2009 Thanks MayI! Haven't made it to your thread yet, hope your still doing well. Link to post Share on other sites
Author LisaUk Posted September 11, 2009 Author Share Posted September 11, 2009 Yay! Tojaz is back and mad as h**l, just like me today-COMPANY!! LOL :bunny::bunny::D:D:bunny::bunny: Link to post Share on other sites
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