Author jj33 Posted September 14, 2009 Author Share Posted September 14, 2009 I dont but will look for it Im cured!! Just as you predicted OWoman - thinking about what Devil said I feel freer than I have in ages. Thank you all. Link to post Share on other sites
StoptheDrama Posted September 14, 2009 Share Posted September 14, 2009 JJ - I was going to check in with you to see how you are and then I saw this thread...hope your day ended on a positive note. You've been through the ringer with him and yet he continues to play his games...ugh...I feel for you. Stay strong Link to post Share on other sites
Author jj33 Posted September 15, 2009 Author Share Posted September 15, 2009 Thanks Im doing much better now. Something Devil said really turned it around for me. Things are as they were meant to be. Time to let it go. Hes harmless and will continue to do whatever he needs to do to cope. He means well. It was just difficult to take while I was holding on to the hurt and disappointment. Link to post Share on other sites
Aquarius Rising Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 I feel for you, JJ. I completely understand why NC is impossible in your situation, but you can clearly see why it's an absolute requirement. There can be no friendship, no interaction with an affair partner like this after the affair ends...because he'll continue to 'push the boundary' trying to get you to slip. I'm with you here OWL, it's one thing to have an A with an OW and decide that you cannot leave your wife and then end the affair. It's something else for the MM to feel entitled to keep tormenting the OW with lame and benign excuses to keep feeding his selfish oversized ego. JJ why didn't you say what you thought of saying??? What's stopping you? .... AR Link to post Share on other sites
mourningMM Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 Call the phone company and have his phone number and email contact blocked from your line. Or each time you get a text from him, reply NOT IN SERVICE. Eventually he might believe that he isn't getting through....and stop. Because in reality, he isn't getting through. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
Author jj33 Posted September 15, 2009 Author Share Posted September 15, 2009 Thanks its ok now. I cant explain it but finally the cord in my mind has been cut. Took long enough.... and I havent heard from him since I did what I knew would stop him dead in his tracks. I think he's history folks!!! The last bout may have been what economists call the "dead cat bounce", if not for him then for me which is really all that matters. Link to post Share on other sites
jasminetea Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 That's great news jj, well done Link to post Share on other sites
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