JL911 Posted September 13, 2009 Share Posted September 13, 2009 This is by far the most confusing time of my life....As most of you know 2 months ago my gf of 3.5 years from college and I broke up...I have been crushed... Tonight half asleep I decided to wake up and check my email real quick...I noticed a message from match.com where I have been chating with some people. New message...I go in check it... I check my email...Its my ex gf from senior year of high school. We broke up when I went to college...7 years ago...Her message was simply this "Hey JL sounds like you are describing me...hehe...how have you been? Whats new? We should talk..." SHOCK This was my first love. We dated for about a year and we broke up. I came home the following summer dated again...Broke up again when I went back to school... I was crushed and away from her...I was only 19 her only 17...Now here I am 7 years later back home...single...and her looking for me now...wow...I just dont know what to say...wow... any thoughts.....Just noticed her relationship status says divorced.... Link to post Share on other sites
splintered thing Posted September 13, 2009 Share Posted September 13, 2009 This was my first love. We dated for about a year and we broke up. I came home the following summer dated again...Broke up again when I went back to school... I was crushed and away from her...I was only 19 her only 17...Now here I am 7 years later back home...single...and her looking for me now...wow...I just dont know what to say...wow... I don't know how often these things work out in real life, but that sounds like a perfect set-up if you wanted to write a romance. I think there's no way to tell if it really is as perfect as it sounds without starting with a bit of catching up and seeing where it all goes. Link to post Share on other sites
norajane Posted September 13, 2009 Share Posted September 13, 2009 any thoughts.....Just noticed her relationship status says divorced.... Yeah, you just might be the ego feed she needs right now after her divorce. I was crushed If she crushed you before, twice, don't think she can't or won't do it again. Proceed with caution. Make sure you find out how recently she's been divorced, and why. Link to post Share on other sites
0hpenelope Posted September 13, 2009 Share Posted September 13, 2009 The recent divorce is a red flag. Proceed with caution. Link to post Share on other sites
Ray of Sunshine Posted September 13, 2009 Share Posted September 13, 2009 I have read many times over that you should give yourself 6 months before starting a new relationship...especially after a divorce. But there's nothing wrong with catching up with an old friend. I agree you should find out when her divorce occurred and what's been happening in between. People mature alot in a 7 year span....so this young lady may have changed and grown from her marriage experience. I do believe in giving folks the benefit of doubt. Good luck in talking with her...and take it a day at a time. Let us know how this works out! Sunshine always... Link to post Share on other sites
Author JL911 Posted September 13, 2009 Author Share Posted September 13, 2009 Honestly...Not really approaching this with the aspect of a relationship...Just figure it odd how one thing has lead to now her trying to pop back into my life...Just the timing is very weird... I dont think she is really the type to get married and stay married...Least not yet...I dunno... Honestly I'm just looking for someone to hang out with. I just really never expected to hear from her again... Link to post Share on other sites
BackonTrack2 Posted September 14, 2009 Share Posted September 14, 2009 I had the same thing happen to me. My ex and I broke up (she was a whore) and about 2 months later, my old girlfriend from from 7 years ago (high school) contacted me on my space we hooked up and hand sex, i was with her about 2 months, she told me she always wonder what happen to me and well, its just odd, she's the second girl to tell me she loved me, after 7 years, the first one my first girlfriend, she still loved me... hrm 3 girls told me they loved me, i said it once and the one i said it too hit me with tire iron and broke me to pieces... thats odd.... go figure Link to post Share on other sites
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