Wife says she doesn't love me "that way" any more

[bloggervenus]

Sorry for irrelevent message earlier. I later read the thread and found out that you have already separated. Kudos to you for putting the effort and trying to make it work. I wish you all the best. Remember, no guilty feelings. You are a prescious human being and deserve every happiness in the world.

[etrain1234]

180 time my friend.

Go LC, no conversations at all about anything but kid and finances. Nothing else.

If you have and joint financial accounts, close them and open seperate ones.

If you have joint credit cards, close them IMMEDIATELY. Don't let her go on a spending spree and you end up paying for it.

Time for you to be the best you and the best dad you can be. You tried to be the best husband, she didn't want that. Eventually she see this, but usually by then it's too late.

You deserve all her attention or someone elses. That someone else may turn out to be better than the first.

 

Peace, Good Luck, and God Bless

 

Keep us updated.

 

Thanks.

That's exactly what I'm doing. I will not contact my wife unless it concerns our son. All the joint accounts & credit cards have already been closed. Right now, I'm focusing on my son. He seems to be handling things well so far. I'm also reconnecting with a lot of old friends. I need to get my life back. And I'm busy "de-wifing" the house & redecorating it MY way.

I really need to keep busy on the days I don't have my son. No sitting around the house moping.

[Toodamnpragmatic]

I was hoping it was only an EA, but she seemed to have checked out a while ago as many of us thought. Good luck in moving forward.

[The Collector]

Really sorry it's all over, but I'm happy for you that at least you now know why, and can get closure, both of you knowing who gave up on the marriage and why. She smells of undisposed of condoms, not roses, and that's something.

 

Good luck with moving on - you'll be with a better woman before you know it.