Pedigree Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 I'm a guarded person. It takes me time to warm up to people and this includes girls that could be potential dates. The thing is, by the time I've warmed up enough to approach them, I've been tucked away safely in the friendzone and we all know the escape rate once you're placed there. What can I do to end this cycle? How can I warm up to people quicker? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Pedigree Posted September 17, 2009 Author Share Posted September 17, 2009 Any responses? Any suggestions? Link to post Share on other sites
xpaperxcutx Posted September 17, 2009 Share Posted September 17, 2009 Work on your issues on why you are so guarded in the first place. Address your problems with trust because it is about you and not anyone else. Mostly to comes down to the way you socialize. If you want to date a girl, at least be more open with giving them a benefit of the doubt since they haven't warrant you to build up a barrier. Be more proactive in how you meet new people and acquaintances. Link to post Share on other sites
Vlad Posted September 17, 2009 Share Posted September 17, 2009 Start meting girls from work, school, neighbors, even if you might not be interested on them at the moment, they are within your reach and you can just get better because you will see them in more than one occasion you see them often, look for girls that you might have things in common with, even if they are girls you don’t like at first sight. Girls around you will only bring more girls it’s a law, believe me. I’ve never had problems meting girls, I just treat all of them the same and that is something they like, I don’t distinguish from how they look or what position they have in society or in the company I work on, I treat them all the same way and they love that, when it comes to dating or sex then I make my selection. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Pedigree Posted September 28, 2009 Author Share Posted September 28, 2009 Work on your issues on why you are so guarded in the first place. Address your problems with trust because it is about you and not anyone else. Mostly to comes down to the way you socialize. If you want to date a girl, at least be more open with giving them a benefit of the doubt since they haven't warrant you to build up a barrier. Be more proactive in how you meet new people and acquaintances. No issues, just a bit introvert that's all. Start meting girls from work, school, neighbors, even if you might not be interested on them at the moment, they are within your reach and you can just get better because you will see them in more than one occasion you see them often, look for girls that you might have things in common with, even if they are girls you don’t like at first sight. Girls around you will only bring more girls it’s a law, believe me. I’ve never had problems meting girls, I just treat all of them the same and that is something they like, I don’t distinguish from how they look or what position they have in society or in the company I work on, I treat them all the same way and they love that, when it comes to dating or sex then I make my selection. Thanks, will try this. Link to post Share on other sites
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