niftywizz Posted November 23, 2003 Share Posted November 23, 2003 Hey ppls I have had no luck and no luck and even more no luck in life. I am now 16 years old and have never had a girlfreind. I have a close freind who is always with his girlfreind. He is always doing things with her sexual and non sexual. He always points out what hes done and what i will prob never do. I really like this girl in my class at school. I think she is an angel and i would do anything for her. BUT!! Her ex b/f is my close freind. She keeps saying to me that she has to get over him beofre she will find someone else. What can I do. Everytime i see her i just feel sick cos i love her so much. Any Advice/Info would be 1000% greatful. I Thank anyone in advance. Link to post Share on other sites
red-rose-in-winter Posted November 28, 2003 Share Posted November 28, 2003 Don't feel bad because you are 16 and have never had a girlfriend. I didn't date any guys all the way through high school, and I turned out ok. I have been married to a terrific guy for 2 years now, so I know there is hope for you. As far as this girl that you like in school, just give her some time to get over her past relationship. Broken hearts need time to heal. Just continue to be her friend, and if it is meant to be between you, love will find a way. And if she's not "the one" for you, trust me, there is someone out there for you!! I was in your situation many years ago (I am in my 30's now), and although things may look "unlucky" for you now, things will turn around for you when you get older. Link to post Share on other sites
hitnf Posted December 12, 2003 Share Posted December 12, 2003 damn, i am 19 never had a date or a girl as a friend. Soon i'll be 20 and there you pretty much all the girls are taken or used. For that girl in your class it is an akward situation, she has to get over her gf, i dunno whats up there, just try to talk to her become her friend, let her ask you out if ever she does. Try to get to know her more if you don't already. About the thing love will find a way complete garbage. I tried for 6 years, and like tried many times to get to know girls and no, they want nothing to do with me, simple, not meant to have.. kind of late also, anyways nm about me, just continue your friendship with that girl. Later, H Link to post Share on other sites
WWDDFD Posted December 12, 2003 Share Posted December 12, 2003 23 here, never had a girlfriend. I regret wasting my college years working my ass off now. Everyone tells me not to, but I'm just not happy. Link to post Share on other sites
solitasviator Posted January 28, 2004 Share Posted January 28, 2004 wooohooo so im not the only one. Dont fret dude, your only 16. Im 21, ive been single my entire life, i just havent met the right one. the best way to go about it is to focus on friendships. Relax and be yourself, and be confident. someone will come along eventually Link to post Share on other sites
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