EmptyPromises Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 anyone block an ex's number? what was the outcome..how are u feeling? and are there benefits. hate that my ex isnt texting or calling me right now. he sent me a couple of immature texts. i stupidly texted him back. i was the last one to text him. i feel like my phone is mocking me. is it a good idea to block his number? or just grow up, find strength to ignore his texts and calls when he does call and text. Link to post Share on other sites
Maoky Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 You might not need to block it.. seems a bit rude. But I would STRONGLY suggest deleting it. My first break up a while ago (I'm only 17 now), I kept all my presents from her, I kept her website blogs, facebook, number, etc. in the hopes that she would come back. Now, I'm going through my third break-up, and I'm finding it a lot easier with almost no contact at all in a few months, all her messages, presents, gone, or at least stored away where I won't look for a long long time. Please, do this for yourself, promise you'll feel better Link to post Share on other sites
Author EmptyPromises Posted September 15, 2009 Author Share Posted September 15, 2009 i told him i would block it 2 days ago if he texted me. and he did text me and i said i was going to block it last night. but i dont want to come off as weak. ive been weak this whole relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
smookie Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 It seems like you are wanting him to text and call you? correct me if I am wrong ... If this is what you are wanting then do not tell him you are going to block it... If you truly do not want contact with him then yes block it. Link to post Share on other sites
BeSteady Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 You might not need to block it.. seems a bit rude. But I would STRONGLY suggest deleting it. Depending on the break-up there is nothing wrong it. In fact if it wall help you heal then it is recommended. Link to post Share on other sites
Author EmptyPromises Posted September 15, 2009 Author Share Posted September 15, 2009 i do..but whenever he does i answer him. and i want to get over this. Link to post Share on other sites
BeSteady Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 i do..but whenever he does i answer him. and i want to get over this. Read these to do so: The No Contact Guide So you want a second chance? Link to post Share on other sites
smookie Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 i do..but whenever he does i answer him. and i want to get over this. I got advise yesterday on how to help the problem... I would also answer the texts and calls but when I took this advise from someone it made it better. When he calls or text you, look at the number and smile and put the phone down, Don't answer it, do not text back.. everytime you do this it gets eazier for you.. LOL my ex always said that he does not know my office number that he only has my cell number, well kinda funny that he called my office (I work from home) lastnight when I would not answer my cell. Link to post Share on other sites
Odyssey Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 Depends on the situation, but for me i had to get a new phone 'cause my ex wouldn't stop calling & texting me (bordering on stalker behavior). I have already told her that i don't want her back for what she did to me. I just don't need this crap, when i am trying to move on. Link to post Share on other sites
HappyAgain Posted September 15, 2009 Share Posted September 15, 2009 I was getting at least 5 calls a day from him for a month so I finally blocked all his numbers. I had no intention of reconciling or even wanting to hear his cheating voice. I just wanted to be left alone. The benefit: peace of mind! Link to post Share on other sites
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